Rithin Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 I recently discovered my mum having an affair with a man I knew well. He was a gardener in my school. He fell in love with mum and pursued her even when he knew she was married. He was soft spoken and gets along well with everyone. At first my mum thought he was being funny. But later she relented to have an affair with him. My dad is a good provider and hard worker. But he has an addiction for alcohol. He would drink merilly and doze off like a baby. The gardener became good friends with dad. He would intoxicate dad with lots of booze. Then he and mum would sneak into a room to make love. Lately he has become brazen. He would bathe together with mum or kiss and grope her while my dad is dozing after drinking. He also refers to my mum as his sextoy. He urges mum to get pregnant and give birth to his child. To my surprise my mum agreed. Not a day goes without the lover sneaking into my house, fool my father with alcohol and have sex with mum. I'm in a fix. My mum genuinely enjoy her lovers attention. But should I tell my father and put a stop to this affair? Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 How old are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Buckeye2 Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 It sounds as if they are doing this in front of you. Does your mom know that you know? Does she have a job? Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 Very Sad! Hope things work out alright for all. Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 (edited) You must tell your dad. Edited August 6, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Allusions to trolling redacted and member moderated Link to post Share on other sites
onemanband Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 Tell your dad ,expose both of them ,they are disrespecting you and your father once everybody finds out he will run for the hills Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rithin Posted August 6, 2015 Author Share Posted August 6, 2015 Nope My mum is a housewife since marriage Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 How old are you, Rithin....? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rithin Posted August 6, 2015 Author Share Posted August 6, 2015 It sounds as if they are doing this in front of you. Does your mom know that you know? Does she have a job? Nope my mum is a housewife since marriage Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rithin Posted August 6, 2015 Author Share Posted August 6, 2015 How old are you, Rithin....? I am 20 years old Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 This is too much for you to have to deal with, then. It's grossly unfair on you, and both your parents have their own set of problems. Is there another adult you know, whom you could confide in? Someone close to you? A tutor, or pastor? You need support, but this is NOT your responsibility. Your parents are old, stupid and reckless enough to make their own decisions and mistakes but they should not be impacting on you, it's dreadfully unfair. Can you talk to someone? Link to post Share on other sites
66Charger Posted August 6, 2015 Share Posted August 6, 2015 At 20 years old you are not a child. You should not tell your father. You should tell your mother. Tell her everything you know. Tell her to be honest with your father. She may ask you not to tell him. Tell her not to ask you to lie to your father or carry this burden That puts the responsibilty where it belongs..on your MUM Link to post Share on other sites
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