LoveIsMyReligion Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 Met this awesome girl about a year ago, we became good friends which eventually lead to more. She went back home about 2 months after I met her and broke things off with her boyfriend to be with me. Things went well, we each visited each other and while we were together (in-person) no issues at all. However in the past month she stopped asking to skype and her responses got shorter and shorter. I think someone else may have caught her attention.. and I do notice her playing online games with her males friends a lot more... however when I tell her "hey why don't we just be friends" she refuses. She's never lied to me, even when I've tested her a few times, but I can't stand to make someone a priority in my life when I'm not theirs. I have tickets to visit her very soon (about 1 week) but I don't want to get there, sleep with her, and get attached even more so... My plan is to still move to her country simply because I've spent a lot of time learning the language and I really like the people there, but I'm afraid if I ask her to jut be friends now she won't want me to visit anymore... I definitely saw myself falling in love with this girl someday but lately things just don't feel right and I find myself constantly trying to get her attention or convince her to Skype etc.. Thoughts? Thanks for reading.
Mandy235 Posted August 6, 2015 Posted August 6, 2015 It sounds like she may just need less contact than you. I know that at the beginning of the long-term portion of my relationship, I wanted to talk to my bf all the time. Now, I have to consciously remind myself to call and text because I just get caught up with my life away from him. It doesn't mean I don't love him, we just have different levels of communication needs. It's a good sign that she doesn't want to be just friends. I would say definitely go on your trip and tell her your feelings in person. 1
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