ExMM started social media war, haven't seen him in over 2 years

[HelenaHandbasket]

I haven't seen him in over two years and I found out, he has been keeping tabs on me.

 

Long story short, I had an affair with someone in the music industry, we had hundreds of mutual friends. During our affair he also accused me of sleeping with some of these other musicians. I found out a couple months ago he is targeting all these same people on social media. Why? Because another musician called himself by the nickname I gave to exMM and exMM also used it privately between us. I had nothing to do with this other man posting it! A week later after the name was posted, exMM went into complete meltdown. He gave up the scene and quit music for good about a year ago. I found out through a former mutual, exMM is going after several people and posting garbage.

 

I will never EVER EVER contact him to tell him to stop, so that is out of the question.

 

I want to say that if anyone is even thinking of having an affair DON'T DO IT. There are crazy people out there that will follow you as they believe they need to even the score in some sick twisted fashion. They can also target innocent bystanders YEARS AFTER. If you want to cheat just think this is how you could possibly become. You think your life is so great afterwards with your wife or husband and you moved on but you didn't. You're stuck and you're miserable and you lash out at people your ex is connected with because you cannot stand the choices you made.