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I've been single for about 4 months now, and safe to say I'm ready and willing to enter the whole dating game again.

 

I enjoy a lot of aspects of being single, but I much prefer being able to spend time with someone and enjoy their presence. You could say I could do that with a friend, but what I really do need is romance.

 

 

I'm not focused on making the very next girl I find my girlfriend, I kind of want to date her as much as I can before any labels are put in place. I think this is where I've gone wrong in my past relationships -- it was always rushed.

 

 

I feel like it's the women's "job" to decide whether it should become official or not... this is my personal opinion though.

 

 

 

 

I guess my dream girl would be:

 

 

- Brunette

 

- Average to tall in height

 

- Eye colour doesn't bother me one bit

 

- French would be fantastic, but I'm open to pretty much anything...

 

- Slim, athletic or average body types.

 

- White. Yes it's a preference, it's not racism...

 

 

Mainly I'm frustrated because I'm not getting anywhere with women at the moment. I'm busy with work and stuff, so I have very little time to interact with women. I also lack confidence which I know is a major dealbreaker.

 

 

I've tried ONLD, but it's a total waste of time for me...

 

 

I'm pretty average in looks I guess ... I'm really tall though and quite athletic.

 

I would post a picture, but I don't think we're allowed to.

 

 

 

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... I'm busy with work and stuff, so I have very little time to interact with women...

 

This is going to forever be a major obstacle, whether it be in meeting women or getting serious with just one woman.

 

I also lack confidence which I know is a major dealbreaker...

 

Ditto this.

 

 

 

Sort out your priorities and then actually live them, first, and it will probably be easier to meet women and get to know them to move on to having a relationship with one.

 

 

 

Best of luck to you...

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This is going to forever be a major obstacle, whether it be in meeting women or getting serious with just one woman.

 

Well the thing is, I have managed to get women regardless of my jobs... but they just didn't last because I was away almost all the time and couldn't court them as much...

 

 

Ditto this.

 

It's really annoying :/

 

Sort out your priorities and then actually live them, first, and it will probably be easier to meet women and get to know them to move on to having a relationship with one.

 

Like I said I've been in a few relationships already (I'm 21). I guess what I mean is that I want that special someone I can be with but also spend a lot of time with... (Beta as hell, I know)

 

Best of luck to you...

 

 

Thanks :)

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