joefr Posted August 8, 2015 Share Posted August 8, 2015 We are both 18. This girl and I last went out 5 days ago. After that she got really cold and distant (Read last post for more info). So in response to her going cold i backed of and just gave her some space. The day after she snap chatted me saying that we where at the same store so I walked around with her and I felt like a needy girl. I snap-texted her that I didn't feel well at the store and didn't get a response. So I backed off completely to get back to center and get rid of any neediness i felt. Now I feel back to normal. Yesterday she liked my Instagram pic and snapped me but I didn't reply. I want her to text me because I don't like snap-chat and she knows this. Should I reach out and text her to go out for dinner or should I wait for her to text me to plan something. Should I give it more time? I have no clue what to do and any info would be helpful. thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
hakim Posted August 8, 2015 Share Posted August 8, 2015 We are both 18. This girl and I last went out 5 days ago. After that she got really cold and distant (Read last post for more info). So in response to her going cold i backed of and just gave her some space. The day after she snap chatted me saying that we where at the same store so I walked around with her and I felt like a needy girl. I snap-texted her that I didn't feel well at the store and didn't get a response. So I backed off completely to get back to center and get rid of any neediness i felt. Now I feel back to normal. Yesterday she liked my Instagram pic and snapped me but I didn't reply. I want her to text me because I don't like snap-chat and she knows this. Should I reach out and text her to go out for dinner or should I wait for her to text me to plan something. Should I give it more time? I have no clue what to do and any info would be helpful. thanks. She got cold and distant because you probably turned her off in some way. Don't worry, it happens to the best of us. I would recommend you don't reach out to her in anyway if you want any chance to reattract her. I reckon that she eventually will send you a text, but you've just got to "disappear" in order for her to wonder about you. I've read somewhere that women are attracted to men they can't read... so she'll eventually get curious. When she does reach out, assume she wants to see you and ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
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