tsa902 Posted August 11, 2015 Share Posted August 11, 2015 She broke up with on on April, we were together for just over 2 years. After the breakup, we remained contact, with lots of hot/cold treatment. I stopped talking to her on July 11, two days she said 'I want to work it out'. After the date we had on the July, I haven't heard anything from her. Its been 4 weeks now. Should I give her a call or a text? Link to post Share on other sites
qubist Posted August 11, 2015 Share Posted August 11, 2015 She broke up with on on April, we were together for just over 2 years. After the breakup, we remained contact, with lots of hot/cold treatment. I stopped talking to her on July 11, two days she said 'I want to work it out'. After the date we had on the July, I haven't heard anything from her. Its been 4 weeks now. Should I give her a call or a text? Not enough information to judge her but seems like a typical break-up story when a girl initiate a break up to try a new "adventure" but still not secure enough she still wants to keep contact with EX to ease the guilt and to have security blanket. once she gets enough signs that the new R is secure she completely dumps the EX or she might want to keep him as platonic friend. do you know if any other guy is involved? if yes GET OUT OF THIS NOW do not call her delete her number and all social media contacts. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tsa902 Posted August 11, 2015 Author Share Posted August 11, 2015 Last time when we talked, I asked her honestly if she had feelings for someone else and she replied with 'No.' But im not 100% sure because she might not have meant what she said. I do want to reconcile, but I heard that staying NC wont get an ex back. I read so much advice and now everything is messy since different people give different advice and stuff. Some say reach out every now and then. Others say stay NC forever and wait for her to contact you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
qubist Posted August 11, 2015 Share Posted August 11, 2015 Last time when we talked, I asked her honestly if she had feelings for someone else and she replied with 'No.' But im not 100% sure because she might not have meant what she said. I do want to reconcile, but I heard that staying NC wont get an ex back. I read so much advice and now everything is messy since different people give different advice and stuff. Some say reach out every now and then. Others say stay NC forever and wait for her to contact you. you don't go NC to get an EX back . a NC is for people who want to move on. obviously that's not the case for you. like i said before there isn't enough info to really give you an opinion. what I would suggest is this: try to contact her and ask to see her to talk about your relationship. if she declined or ignored for a week. then plan on moving on and just go complete NC. If she agrees to talk take her to a nice quite place be honest and cool tell her that you care about her and wondering if anything could be done to get back together. show her your willingness to work on your R hear her out and see her perspective. then maybe from the feed back someone here can help you. if she shows no interest in repairing the R or if she admits she is with someone else just get out and go NC Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted August 11, 2015 Share Posted August 11, 2015 The answer is the same as before -- no. This girl simply uses you for an ego boost and nothing more. I mean you tried to kiss her and she went dead fish on you. She's just not that into you. Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
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