hakim Posted August 12, 2015 Share Posted August 12, 2015 For those who show up expecting a question, there isn't one. This is simply some advice I'd like to give out to all those struggling with a recent break up or a break up they just can't seem to get over. I've been through three so far in my 21 years. One of them was after a long 3 year relationship with a girl who used to be one of my best friends. Things were simply imperfect. She came from a really religious family and I came from a very liberal family that didn't care what I did and who/what I followed. I realised after three years that were incompatible and that I had fallen like a ton of bricks for another woman. What really helped and encouraged me to get over her was freedom. The freedom to roam around all over the world, the freedom to flirt with beautiful women and, of course, the freedom to *****. My second ex was a joke to say the least. It was a massive clash of personalities. I don't want to sound mean or brag about it, but she was a bimbo and I was simply too much of a brain for her to handle. I must say that the break up was horrendous. However, retrospectively, I can understand why it took so much longer to get over her. I was in a terrible state of mind. I was suffering from depression due to a dramatic event that took place a month after the break up... Now with my third break up, even though I do feel empty, I can rejoice that I'm not suffering so much as to locking myself in my room all day and every day. I'm somewhat happy with myself and content that I can move on to better things, and, potentially, a better woman. Conclusively, to all those going through the hardships of break up, think about yourself - be selfish - don't dwell on things that cannot be fixed but turn to things that you love and appreciate. There's is always better out there ... that special someone. Thans guys! Hakim. Link to post Share on other sites
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