Husband said he never "really" love me at all--I'm an "obligation" What?

[Lezbean]

Hate to be a party pooper...but USUALLY when someone says "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" they are cheating. Then they tend to rewrite your history.

 

Good luck. Be strong!

[car2007]

Wow, I sound somewhat like your husband. My W and I just can't make an intimate connection. We've tried over the years to sort it out, find out why, but now we're just in a holding pattern that has existed for years. We take care of our child, do what needs to be done around the house, go to work. The thing is we've never had a close relationship. We do love each other, but there has to be more because neither of us is satisfied. I know she's not because she has said that to me, as well as said she's at peace with that. I don't think I am though. Good luck to you, but if he's where I'm at, well....