joel Posted May 9, 2005 Share Posted May 9, 2005 no sure if u guys remember about my leanne situation but this started in december of 2004 when i asked her out and she declined me-i was so embarassed as she did tell a lot of fellow classmates about what i did. i can tell by the smirks i got directed at me. so the following semester-we didn't have any classes togheter -woow great, but this semester-today the first day we do. i don;t want to come off as not nowing i didn't notice her since the class is relatively small -but should i say hello to her and make small talk. i now i won't be seeing her again any time as now she be finishing off her degree. i looked at her today but she didn;t look back at me. it be great for the members who have read my previous posts about my leanne situtation and give me some feedback. i seen the girl look at me when i'm not looking at her, but when i look at her she doesn't look at me. shy or what. i think a lesson learned get to now the girl more before askin her out. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted May 9, 2005 Share Posted May 9, 2005 why would you want to say hello to her? she blew you off once, so do NOTHING. heck, i would not even smile at her, i would not even let her borrow a pencil, i MIGHT pee on her if she was ablaze....but that is as nice as i would make myself be. i am not saying go outta your way to spite her, but definatley do not waste your time thinking about anything to do with her. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted May 10, 2005 Share Posted May 10, 2005 you are putting too much thought into this nonsense, she rejected you once. forget about her and move on, she isnt the only girl in the world. Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted May 10, 2005 Share Posted May 10, 2005 1. When a woman rejects you, then cross them off your list. 2. Even if you get rejected, try to conduct yourself with class. If she smiles and says hello, smile and say hello back just because it makes you look better that you can get rejected and not be bitter about it. 3. Look at the big picture - always. By that I mean, don't ever worry about rejection, and what people think about you. Don't worry if one or even five or ten women reject you. Dating is, to some extent, a numbers game, so there are going to be quite a few rejections along the way. Never let that get you down. Even smooth players get rejected - the difference between you and the smooth player is that he is so confident that he just keeps moving on to the next woman....until he gets what he wants. Link to post Share on other sites
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