zeeetaar Posted August 15, 2015 Share Posted August 15, 2015 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/platonic/friendship/529135-deleted-close-friend-facebook#post6327172 ^TL;DR Basically i unfriended, stoped all contact to her because she kept ignoring me and excluding me for events. Being rude at my house, chilling with my ex and lying about it and when my dog died, she couldn't even be bother to do anything EVEN THOUGH I was right in front of her crying my eyes out thus i concluded She = not friend SO, she has returned once again and in the arms of my ex she knows I'm fond of. I just like what.. What is she up to, and why? I'm at the stage of recovering from him, where i care about him and still have a little bit of feelings for him. We have a mutual good friend which we both hang out with her at different times and our mutual friend has said that my old friend is constantly asking about me and she even asked out mutual friend to tell me about her new relationship with my ex to see my reaction. My ex tried to get into contact with me once of some instant messaging website i hardly ever use and it took me a month to reply and by then he lost interest, probably because he heard i dated another guy in the time period. I just don't understand why he would pick her, he had told me countless amount of times how boring she was when i was dating him. He even told me to make new friends and i was nah, cant be that mean. I thought we were on good terms, that he would ask me if it was cool at least to date her. I mean its polite to at least ask right? So my question is that is this actually a legitimate relationship? or some childish plot to get to me because at this point I'm pitying her and kinda want her to stop before it gets too far. What does my ex have to do with this? Did i do something to him to dislike me? I mean sure the news was a shock but it lasted a day and i got over it now it just seems sad. What should i do? How do i stop this revenge ploy because "when one seeks revenge, dig two graves: one for them and one for you". I do not want to be part of it. I freaking graduated high school. I don't want this nonsense Link to post Share on other sites
La.Primavera Posted August 16, 2015 Share Posted August 16, 2015 I am going to be blunt with you. You need to cut both of these people out of your life for good. Neither one of them deserve to be in your life, and their recent behavior has confirmed that. It really doesn't matter what her or his motives are in dating each other, just assume they have the worst intentions and you'll probably be right. No contact is the best way to handle their games. Don't give them an opportunity to mess with your head. That means blocking their numbers, social media, everything! As for your mutual friend you need to make it clear that you do not want to hear anything about them. If your friend keeps telling you things, you need to ditch her as well. You deserve to be happy, not caught up in other people's games. Life is too short for drama and toxic people in your life. All the best Link to post Share on other sites
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