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sent the ex a birthday card a few months ago after 2 months of NC. It was my way of telling her I was still interested and I cared.I knew for less than a year and thought she would be impressed that I actually knew her birthdate.

 

Well' she loved the card and we were talking again and she even asked me out a couple of times to the movies . we talked about doinfg things in the futere .We were friends again. As time went on I had the feeling was she trying to avoid me. After a few months af hot/cold behaviour from her I called her up to ask her why she was avoiding me. She told me she wasn't interested and did not feel comfortable being alone with me.

 

I have never asked this girl for a single thing except to be friends the whole time I have known her.I am upset because if she was not interested now why did she act so interested when I sent her the card?She should have told me then .

 

what do you guys think?

thanks

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westernxer

I think you need to move on. She obviously isn't interested in you beyond friendship.

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SuperFantastico

Perhaps she thought at first you wanted to be just friends, but realised you still had a thing for her and didnt want to go back to the way things were.

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