psk167 Posted May 10, 2005 Share Posted May 10, 2005 OK guys, and girls here it is After being together for four years then living together for 6 months. My gf comes home one night to tell me "we should date other people" which lead to a discussion which lead to her confessing she had sex with a guy that she had told me was "just her friend" First she lead to "needing to date other people" because I was mad she was hanging out with this particular guy I knew he wanted to get in her pants..called me "jealous" "controlling" and everything I turned out to be right She would tell me she would be home by 1 o clock am.. and i would wake up and call her at 3 am worrying why she wasn't there. she would call back and say "ill be home in 5 mins" then I laid ther eknowing what was hjappning not sleeping and just staring at my phone waiting for it to ring. it hurt soo bad... needless to say im head over heels in love with her even having in my mind she shared her body with another ..(who she is dating after 5 hours of being single from me) . it lead to last night (she is living in MY apt for 3 more weeks) I was just there to get some things (I have been staying with a friend till she leaves.. Also understand I am letting her stay because she literally has no family , or anywhere to go untill her apt opens on the 28th "Come into the bedroom so we can talk, I want to be friends" I walked in and she was undressed , for a second I fell back into a feeling everything was ok, I felt that we where back together for that one second and even though ti was so confused and not wanting to we had sex because it felt so good, and it is what I want..i dont want to hurt i want to be with her.. But I felt I was just hurting myself and got up to leave the place after she got all hurt and offended saying "Why don't you sleep with me, after what we just did , can't you stay the night?" I asked her if she was with this other guy and she said "i wouldn't call it "being with him" but Im going over tommorrow night yes she yelled and cried and blady blah.... but My question is... does this mean she is having second thoughts? do i have a chance to get her back? IT feels like I do, i am feeling better with this hope I feel now.. please someone set my head straight if im wrong... The diamond I bought her is sitting in my drawer... burning a hole in my mind... I want to give it to her, does she want to stay around? Link to post Share on other sites
outdated Posted May 10, 2005 Share Posted May 10, 2005 Screw her- metaphorically. What a b@#ch! I know it's hard right now, but you DO NOT NEED THIS. Walk away my friend. Walk far far away. Anything else would probably be forgivable. This- NO WAY!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted May 10, 2005 Share Posted May 10, 2005 Walk, run take a train, a bus.......what-ever is necessary. Let her go on her way and get all kinds of STD's and keep them to herself!!! Good golly! bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted May 10, 2005 Share Posted May 10, 2005 Whoa man... RUN AWAY My ex pulled the exact same **** on me. She kissed this guy, and then told me it was a huge mistake and that she wanted to work things out. Well, it almost worked, but then I happened to notice she had been text messaging him still, saying "I miss you." Well, if it was such a big mistake, then why isn't she trying to remedy it? Well, let me set you straight. She is f***ing you, and that's it. DO NOT GIVE HER THAT DIAMOND. Take it back/sell it, and buy yourself something. She's got your balls in a vice and she knows it. She's still seeing the guy she f***ed while seeing you. If you tell her anything nicer than "f*** you, I don't ever want to see you again you slut" then you're being way too nice. Throw her out! If she needs a place to stay, tell her that she can find it with that other guy. There is no hope for this situation. If you ever take her back, then she will continue to sleep around - probably with the same guy. If you continue to go around her, it will be easy for her to make you think that you're "working things out" and she'll play you every bit a fool. I recommend throwing her s*** on the front lawn, and turning on the sprinklers. Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted May 10, 2005 Share Posted May 10, 2005 BrotherAaron...... BAAAAAAA HAAAAAAA HAAAAAAAAA turn on the sprinklers!!! That's the best!!!!! LMFAO! bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
Author psk167 Posted May 10, 2005 Author Share Posted May 10, 2005 Wow, I cant believe I dont see this ****....... you are all right , ......... jeez..... this girl has the power to blind me from seeing the truth i feel like a complete idiot..thank you all for the advice it looks like there is an overwhelming majority here on what i should do Link to post Share on other sites
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