Millie325 Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 Okay so quick summary, my ex and I were each others first loves, together for 3.5 years and then he broke up with me. I think it was because the relationship had got a bit boring/ long distance. he said he felt differently but didn't know why. Fast forward 8 months and we sent the ocassional message to each other which led to us arranging a meet up. this went well! we laughed together and he complimented my figure. when our meal ended, he asked if i had to rush off or had time to hang around so i hung a bit longer. a couple weeks later i asked to meet again as i was in his city. ( i am moving there permanently in a month for work which he knows). he wasnt feeling well this time and the meeting was totally different. He was less chatty and a bit offish with me. although at the end said it had been nice to see me. I dont know where to go from here. I beat myself up over our old relationship an unhealthy amount because I know i made mistakes in how i treated him and I have always wanted to know if he ever figured out what changed his feelings on me. I also still have hopes that maybe one day i can get him back so I dont want to scare him off by asking him such questions. but maybe i need to realise i cant get him back. Any thoughts on what i should do?!?! any opinions at all would be helpful!! Link to post Share on other sites
HandsomeBoh Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 Meet up with him again! And again! And again! And if anything has changed between the two of you since the breakup, he'll surely pick up on it. Link to post Share on other sites
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