Krussell Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 After two years together, my boyfriend who lives ore than an hour away began to message me less because he couldn't due to work shifts and sleep patterns. He finally message me saying that we should go on a break. He said he didn't have time for a relationship and need to get on track on with work and college which he soon will be attending. He doesn't want to completely severe the ties and tells me he loves me and agrees we can talk every now and then. However on facebook, nearly everything that made it clear we were in a relationship is completely gone. I'm quite a clingy person and felt very abandoned and cried so much, i tried calling him but he wouldn't pick up because he didn't want to waver and felt we both needed to work on ourselves. However I had already been getting my life on track whilst he was at work. But all in all, i feel like we've broken up and every message i send i bet i'm being annoying and feel completely lost. What do i do? Link to post Share on other sites
La.Primavera Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 He took the cowards way to break up with you but left the door open as a backup for his own selfish reasons. You are single now and free to move on, which is exactly what you should do. You said you are getting your life on track which is fantastic, keep doing that. Focus on your own goals and things that make you feel happy. For your own sake, go no contact and give yourself time to heel. I know it is devastating but you will get through this and find someone who treats you the way you deserve. All the best. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 A break is training wheels for a break up. In all likelihood as soon as he starts college there will be another girl. tell him from your end this break is permanent. The sooner you can get him out of your life, the sooner you can start to heal. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Two years together and he breaks up with you in a text message? He's an insensitive and disrespectful tool. Consider yourself single. You deserve someone who really loves you and wants to be with you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Pharcyde Posted August 20, 2015 Share Posted August 20, 2015 Agree we the other posters, If they broke up with you via text after 2 years together. They are not worth your time. Link to post Share on other sites
justcallmebones Posted August 22, 2015 Share Posted August 22, 2015 Move one. This guy is not worth any more of your tears or time. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveIsMyReligion Posted August 24, 2015 Share Posted August 24, 2015 I agree, time to cut him out of your relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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