Mischa101 Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201506/what-drives-emotional-abuse-in-relationships?utm_source=FacebookPost&utm_medium=FBPost&utm_campaign=FBPost 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Chloecat Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 The article was good. However, I have found...in my situation...that the perpetrator...who HAS changed...has LEAKED some of these things. Does that mean that....my Husband can never change? Has he truly changed? Is he incapable of change? I like to believe that someone can change. But, do you ever truly trust someone who has abused you for so long? (Even if they have changed...seem to have changed and owned their failures?) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mischa101 Posted August 23, 2015 Author Share Posted August 23, 2015 The article was good. However, I have found...in my situation...that the perpetrator...who HAS changed...has LEAKED some of these things. Does that mean that....my Husband can never change? Has he truly changed? Is he incapable of change? I like to believe that someone can change. But, do you ever truly trust someone who has abused you for so long? (Even if they have changed...seem to have changed and owned their failures?) You two should go to a therapist who specializes in Emotional abuse. What you want is to make sure that the therapist is an expert in emotional abuse because your husband can trick the therapist into believing you are making things up. I don't kow if he can change. I wouldn't trust that he has changed. Please be mindful and careful for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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