secrets07 Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 (edited) Im looking to get some outside opinions on this situation. About 7 months ago I "met" this girl on pof never really expected anything to come of it. She messaged me, almost immediately sent me more pictures of herself (clothed). talked a bit, nothing special whatever. A week later she messaged me again and we havent stopped talking since. I did get all crazy detective with this because im a skeptical person lol Since then shes sent me alot more pictures of herself. I ran the pictures through image search and nothing comes up. I have an email for her again searched it and nothing comes up, Iver searched her phone number it just says its a cell phone. I dont know her last name so I cant search her name. Ive never asked but she doesnt know mine either shes never asked me for any personal information other then my phone number. Shes sent me pictures of her family which ive also searched cuz im that odd lol and nothing comes up. She very willingly gave me her address one night cuz she wanted me to come over but I was far too nervous.. it wasnt all that long after we started talking and I didnt feel comfortable doing that. I did search her address it came up what she said her dads first name was and a last name. I searched what would be her name is that was her last name and location she lives and nothing comes up. We were going to meet up two different times (other then when she wanted me to go to her house) but it never ended up happening. The first time we were going to meet up she kept mentioning that she was worried I wasnt going to be who i said I was. Ive never talked to her on the phone and Ive never seen her in person. She only lives an hour from me.... A few weeks after we started talking we were having a conversation right before she was leaving from work and she just all of a sudden stopped talking to me for a week. I was really confused and texted her a few times no answer. She texted me after that week saying she had been in a car accident on her way home from work and she was so sorry and it was a really bad car accident and I live in a western NY and it was winter at the time.. could happen. We havent talked on the phone cuz she says she has no voice. And she says she wont let me see her til shes a bit better. those two things put together make me really skeptical I guess.. Shes sent me pictures that are definitely from inside a hospital room, and a drs waiting room. Shes never asked me for anything.. other then pictures of me.. but even when I dont do her request she doesnt get like pissy she says that its cute that im shy.. She sent me a gift card thru email for my birthday, I sent her a get well type package once and she sent me pictures when she got it. Her story has always stayed the same, she'll tell me the same thing over and it will always stay the same. Ive also texted (he tried to call me but my phone had a fit) her brother he was going to drop something off to me that she anted me to have cuz she cant drive right now she says... but I honestly wasnt all that cooperative about it cuz im tentative about her.. what are the odds this girl is real? I really want her to be, but part of me feels like I met her online so how could she be especially if I havent seen her, or maybe thats just my optimism of other people shining thru I have never online dated before and never expected anything to really come of it, but I definitely care for her enough so that I know myself enough I might put up some blinders so thats why Im asking for some outside opinions!! Edited August 21, 2015 by secrets07 Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 Ooohhh you have yourself a text buddy. When she gets out of hospital ask her out on a date. Pen pals are nice but not when you get fixated on them and you forget to actually meet others. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 Why have you wasted 7 months on this? She only lives an hour away from you. There is no reason why you can't easily find out the answer to this dilemma. Honestly, it sounds like both of you are to blame for not meeting yet. So, here's what to do. Find a coffee shop, diner, park, or other public place somewhere in between where you live. Arrange to meet there. Work together to find an agreeable day and time. If she refuses to meet you, delete her number and move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 Meet in a public well lit place. Viola mystery solved. If she can't or won't do that, assume she never will. Going forward when you connect with somebody through OLD meet IRL sooner rather than later. 7 months for somebody who only lives 1 hour away is ridiculous. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted August 21, 2015 Share Posted August 21, 2015 I smell a catfish... Link to post Share on other sites
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