heyitsmike Posted August 22, 2015 Share Posted August 22, 2015 My ex and I had previously dates for 15 months , she's 21 and I'm 24. I work full time and she's still in school. After we broke up last summer I got a new job, house and friends by moving an hour away and out of my parents house. She started dating an older guy and I loved the single life in a new vibrant city. She has since broken up with him. So after 1 year ( last month) she got back into contact with me and since then we've had long conversations ( all initiated by her) about how much she misses me and resizes I was so good for her. She was away in Europe at the time but now that she's back she asked to meet up and we scheduled to meet this last Monday. She canceled last minute , so 2 days ago I asked her when she was free and she responded back saying "Any day that works for you will work for me! Most likely since my schedule isn't too crazy this semester :-D " So the next evening I texted her asking what she was up to that day ( a Friday) and the following day ( Saturday aka today and right now ) She hasn't responded since Thursday night and it's currently Saturday afternoon . She goes back to school Sunday/Monday ( tomorrow ) which is 1.5 hours away from me. 1) should I text her before tonight asking if she wants to drive to me, grab a drink so I can finally show her my new life ( 1 hour away from her hometown where she is now) 2) wait for her to text me. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted August 22, 2015 Share Posted August 22, 2015 She's doing what she always does and you're doing what you always do. No texting, leave it be. Aren't you sick of being on this merry-go-round? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mondmellonw Posted August 22, 2015 Share Posted August 22, 2015 When I read the part of "she canceled the last minute" (I was already thinking that this was a bad idea) I thought: "she is just playing him". Please, don't waste any more time in her. She doesn't know what the hell she wants and girls like that are more than often big idiots. I am a girl, and I have seen other girls talking about how they confuse their exes as if they are all proud of themselves for that. It is sad, actually. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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