ZA Dater Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 Anyone on here who is semi awful at dating ever been down this road? Based on my experience with it you need to be careful of the following : is the person they are setting you up with actually single, sounds bizarre but its worth checking this out because I once met up with someone who wasn't single. : do they think you are compatible with the person, worth checking this out before you arrive and find you ying and she is yang and there is no middle ground. : "she is a lovely girl who is looking for a nice guy" if any combination resembling that is uttered be careful, actually be afraid because most of it may not be true, well not true when they end up meeting you, no matter how nice you are seemingly you aren't that "nice guy". : "I am sure you can friend her", again any combination of this can be seen as encouragement but be careful it could lead down the garden path which goes nowhere, certainly not into anything resembling friendship. : they try and set you up with people they themselves wouldn't look twice at. This is just hurtful and degrading. : they stress the physical side "she would be a good abc" when you are in fact looking for something more substantial. Anyone here had any success with dates set up by friends? Link to post Share on other sites
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