guest 2810 Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 my boyfriend is going on a stag weekend this weekend, and i have heard of a thing in the strip clubs, called "shower shows" that involve women in showers!! can anyone enlighten me on this as im feeling a bit uneasy!!! what goes on?? Thanks!! A xx
tiki Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 From what I've heard, it's basically like a woman showering with a glass on one side where people can see in. I have no idea if this woman is alone or with another woman or what. ::shudder::
Naive Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by guest 2810 my boyfriend is going on a stag weekend this weekend, and i have heard of a thing in the strip clubs, called "shower shows" that involve women in showers!! can anyone enlighten me on this as im feeling a bit uneasy!!! what goes on?? Thanks!! A xx If it's a show it can't be that bad.
scarlyjones Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Its a small shower on stage. The girls kinda move slow to the music while the water runs over their bodies. Thats it. Actually,...straight stripping is worse. The showering thing seems quite tame compared. No,...you have nothing to worry about. Unless you have a problem with your guy going to a strip joint.
bicyclejunk Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 let me guess though, Scarly..You don't have a prob with your man going to strip clubs, right? Just curious.
SexKitten Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 are you worried about all the strippers, or just the wet/clean ones?
tiki Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by SexKitten are you worried about all the strippers, or just the wet/clean ones?
scarlyjones Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 No,...actually I dont have a problem with at all. Ive even gone to strip clubs and run INTO him and his buddies..... lol...
scarlyjones Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Why do you ask,.. Bicycle? You have it out for me now dont you
FolderWife Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 While I don't like the idea of MY man going to see this kind of "show" it sounds really hot
bicyclejunk Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Scarly, no, i don't have it out for you....I just figured you'd be fine with it, you seem like the type. It's just that, no offense, but your attitude and views towards things of the trust/relationship-type, differ quite a lot, from those of women I know or most women in general. Not every woman in the world would go to a strip joint. Not every woman in the world would go to a strip joint with her man, or even feel comfortable letting her man go to a strip joint. It's not always simply an insecurity thing on the woman's part. It's just respect. You are fine with it and that's great. But not every woman is like you, nor should they have to be like you. I know you're not implying that I'm just saying.
guest 2810 Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 thanks for you replies! I am kinda ok with him going to a strip club - i dont like the thought of it but wouldnt stop him going. The lap dances and the private dances are def a no no for me, i just couldnt handle that!! the strip club he would be going to said the showershow was a private one, so i take it thats a 1 on 1 show - would that be the same, just watching through glass one on one?? i just wondered if the shower show was more rude, and there was more to it that simply showering, i read somewhere on the net that in some, u can wash the girls? is that tru?? I just think its crazy men can pay to watch a woman shower! oh well!!! G xx
scarlyjones Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 Okay,.....thats ok,.....but I do think your first mistake is the way you worded that one sentence "........or even LETTING her man go to a strip joint....." Letting??? Would you sit down with your girlfriends and hold your head up high and say your man did or didnt LET you do something???? Your his wife,........not his mother.
deesgirl Posted May 14, 2005 Posted May 14, 2005 I've heard the men can pay to actually get in the shower (with their clothes or underwear on) with a nude/semi-nude stripper. If my H does that, he can stay with the strippers. I'd be out.
Bunnylove Posted May 15, 2005 Posted May 15, 2005 Originally posted by scarlyjones Okay,.....thats ok,.....but I do think your first mistake is the way you worded that one sentence "........or even LETTING her man go to a strip joint....." Letting??? Would you sit down with your girlfriends and hold your head up high and say your man did or didnt LET you do something???? Your his wife,........not his mother. Seriously Scarey! I think you should hook up with my ex! He had no boundaries just like you and would say also go on big speals about language that sounded controlling. I'm SURE she didnt mean "letting" him go as in un-doing his ball and chain to let him go have some fun with permission! OBVIOUSLY you can't conrtol who someone is or what they DO...but you can't go on with a relationship where your partner is just doing whatever they want with no regards to your feelings! AGAIN its about respect and love. If this guy is going to strip clubs and she is upset by this then they should talk it out. If its so important he goes along, then maybe they can define together what boundaries should be in place first. Also I hear alot from women thay they souldnt just dump thier man when he does something thats hurts her feelings. I belive you can work things out with love and comminication. But if he shows no sighns of WILLINGNESS to compromise, then maybe it best to walk away and that is not love and without respect, there is no relationship. Watch out for controlling language girls or scarey will be on your case....but I know what you meant!!!
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