amyO Posted August 24, 2015 Share Posted August 24, 2015 This is in regards to my previous post: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/539803-guy-work I've been thinking of messaging him. We're both so shy and I think maybe messaging him might be a good idea. On the other hand, I'm not sure if I should wait until work starts up again and try to talk to him more. However, I feel like if I don't do something soon-neither one of us will do anything. I don't want to keep on waiting for the "right moment" to speak to him...i feel there is never a great time. If I do message him, what should I say? I'm terrified to come across as creepy or weird. We have spoken a few times and there is definitely this unspoken thing between us. Would a guy find it strange if a girl messaged him? I'm trying to think of a question about work to ask him...or some other general subject. I don't want to just profess "hey i like you and want to hangout." Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted August 24, 2015 Share Posted August 24, 2015 If you feel that vibe, it means he'd def like to hear from you. You know what's attractive in people? Confidence. Or to put it more bluntly, balls. Show him you have both and text that you like him and you'd like to hang out. The last thing he'll think is that it's creepy! (And if you text him about the weather it'll just make things more awkward than they are already.) Link to post Share on other sites
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