Completely confused with my exgf now

[brokensobad]

So my ex dumped me about 3 weeks now. Tha last contact we had was like 9 days ago. I plead and beg for her to give me atleast a formal break up if she really wanna end things peacefully but she refused to see me. We've been together for 2 years and got engaged. I am so confused of what she wants. She is giving me mixed signal.

 

The first night we got contact 9 days since the break up she said she is done with me. She don't wanna get back anymore and got to plans to me at all. She was mean rude and don't wanna give me a chance to see her atleast. I wasted ticket US - Asia just so I can ask for a fomal break up that she don't even wanna give it to me. Pushed me away so bad. I was so depress and confused.

 

The second night I texted her again asking that whatever she is going through now or thinking or whatever reason why she broke up with me I am hoping that she will be happy with her decision. I will respect her decision from now on and leave her alone. She then replied to me that " She still loves me , she don't like someonelse and there's no 3rd party involve. " She just got feed up real hard or burned out in our relationship thats why she gave up.

 

I told her if she wanted me to forget her and if theres really no more chance between me and her? She replied again " I didn't say theres no more chance. I also didn't say I will forget you because I will never forget you. Rigt now, I got no answer to give you. All i want is for you to leave me alone "

 

There, if she wanna end the relationship completely then why is she giving me a mixed signal on the second night that we text? Also she keep saying she will block me cos shes annoyed about me texting her and wont leave her alone but she never did! Im not block! The thing that surprise me more is in my birthday she greet me. Tho it was just a simple happy birthday but still she greet me. She was complete rude and mean to me. She throw away all the stuff I gave her because she's not holding back anymore. She keep telling that to me all over again but then i came across to her facebook I saw her recent picture and gues what? She's still wearing the bracelet that I gave her! So she's a liar?!!

 

 

Why is that? We're both girls. I am so confused! Do you think theres still chance? Should I hold on? I am scared that if if I will continue to hold on I will be end up getting hurt. She also pushed me away like trying to find someone and see if it will work or not. I read articles about people if they are completely done with the person they will not bother to even reply to the text mesg correct? But my ex is doing the opposite so I don't know what to do!

 

Anyone can please give me some advice?

[mikeveli4g]

I completely understand what you are going through as my situation is quite similar to yours and my quick advice to you is: NOOOOO CONTACT!!!!! AT ALL!!!

 

 

I know it's easier said than done and considering you were engaged (as I was) means that it is deeper than just some typical relationship. If she's angry with you contacting her will only make it work so you have to discipline yourself and let whatever anger or grudge she has towards you cease.

 

 

Believe me it will work to your advantage sooner than later but you must let her go for now and prepared yourself for what could possibly be a long road filled with pain and delusion. I'm a witness and had I'd mad better decisions post break up I probably could have saved what I had but here I am happily single, but still lost the person I once loved.

 

 

I don't want this to be you... Just back off and let her breathe and in the mean time keep yourself busy, be as selfish as you want to be and enjoy life and let her contact you. SHE WILL regardless whether she has found someone or not... SHE WILL CONTACT YOU! It always happens.

 

 

Hang in there my friend.

[mikeveli4g]

I completely understand what you are going through as my situation is quite similar to yours and my quick advice to you is: NOOOOO CONTACT!!!!! AT ALL!!!

 

 

I know it's easier said than done and considering you were engaged (as I was) means that it is deeper than just some typical relationship. If she's angry with you contacting her will only make it worse so you have to discipline yourself and let whatever anger or grudge she has towards you cease.

 

 

Believe me it will work to your advantage sooner than later but you must let her go for now and prepared yourself for what could possibly be a long road filled with pain and delusion. I'm a witness and had I'd mad better decisions post break up I probably could have saved what I had but here I am happily single, but still lost the person I once loved.

 

 

I don't want this to be you... Just back off and let her breathe and in the mean time keep yourself busy, be as selfish as you want to be and enjoy life and let her contact you. SHE WILL regardless whether she has found someone or not... SHE WILL CONTACT YOU! It always happens.

 

 

Hang in there my friend.