Noideanow Posted August 26, 2015 Share Posted August 26, 2015 Ah, ok. Do you think 95% of men are bisexual? I see now why you could misunderstand what i wrote so sleep delayed, i in-stead of your 95% say it is around 70-80% , at leasy where i live;) goodnight:cool: Link to post Share on other sites
SolG Posted August 26, 2015 Share Posted August 26, 2015 Yeah, I've seen that study too somewhere. Interesting! Sorry SolG, are you a woman? Yes, I'm a woman Jen. I've had very few same-sex experiences; but enough to confirm the attraction. I also had a bi BF in college for a while. He was a ballet dancer. Gorgeous specimen. I have no problem being attracted to androgynous or TG people either. But romantically... I want an ostensibly masculine man. But would have no problem if he expressed fluidity himself. Does that make sense? :/ Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted August 26, 2015 Share Posted August 26, 2015 Yes, I'm a woman Jen. I've had very few same-sex experiences; but enough to confirm the attraction. I also had a bi BF in college for a while. He was a ballet dancer. Gorgeous specimen. I have no problem being attracted to androgynous or TG people either. But romantically... I want an ostensibly masculine man. But would have no problem if he expressed fluidity himself. Does that make sense? :/ I think so. How would you feel about a 'masculine' woman tho? I don't mean a woman who looks like a man etc., but ...I exhibit a lot of masculine traits forex, like I'm assertive, confident, I 'handle' things, etc. But I'm entirely feminine in appearance and I'm womanly in my ways. Would you be attracted romantically to a woman like me? (That's not a come-on, lol. ) Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted August 26, 2015 Share Posted August 26, 2015 I've lost count of the guys I've run into that are clearly gay but then start talking about their wives or girlfriends. Or what women they find attractive. So even in this day and age it still seems like a lot of guys just can't come to grips and embrace it. =/ The percentages are probably the same overall but more women are willing to admit to it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
craw Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 So weird this thread came up at this time. I've been finding it difficult to allow myself to hook up with random guys. The thought crossed my mind to actually seek a woman instead. In my mind, I was thinking I could get gratified without having to deal with falling in love with her. Which mind you, I've been noticing as of lately, that most guys are only interested in *just* hooking up. I am definitely looking in the wrong place. Oh yeah, a lot of FWB potential, but I'm not falling into that hole again. Maybe I will achieve my dream of finding the guy that I can date, has a HL and loves oral as much as I do. Plus - my other ridiculous long list. Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 If you were a straight woman and couldn't find a suitable male to be your mate would you consider going pink? I'm a straight woman and have not been able to find a suitable man to be my mate (I'm 55) and no way in hell would I take a dip in the lady pond. It's a mechanical issue - the parts just don't fit. And it's repulsive and weird. I'd sooner consider a gender-neutral thing, where I wouldn't schwang either way. You'd think with all the trouble I've had with men, it would be logical for me to be Lebanese. But it's just not in me. Men do it for me, period. And the reason why I've been unable to mate has just as much to do with me as it does with the men I've met. It's a two-way street. I guess I'm just not cut out to be paired. And I'm fine with that. Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 (edited) Wow, there is so much I have to say about this topic that I don't know where to begin... For one and for the longest I blame the women's movement...They have taken away men's purpose and with all this 'equality' crap, women are no longer "feminine", sweet, and/or respectful to men. So, we have men dropping out of college...since they are no longer considered the primary providers, they have little to no motivation to go to school and/or pursue careers, jobs, etc. They also have become lazy in RLs. Instead of dealing with courting women, spending money and/or time on women now a days - they rely on porn...and, some may even prefer to become gay or bi. No, I'm not saying this is the only way someone is homosexual - I'm saying, get rejected enough and whomever shows you attention, they start looking pretty darn cute no matter if they are straight, gay, fat, not that attractive, older/younger, etc. So, now that women turned men into little boys that they can kick - biology kicks in and women still desire the strong masculine traits that they destroyed in men.... Sooooo, women start seeing other women as more suitable mates cuz, their little experiment to turn men into women cannot win against biology. Like others posted, women are more about the "emotional" connection over raw sex...so, they tried to turn guys into women (ie making them dress in skinny jeans and wear earrings, talk about their feeeeeelings, etc) and it just isn't the same like a female companion. I find women attractive...I've kissed some girls, did a FFM with my 6 yr guy, and seriously contemplated switching teams at the height of my femenazism...But, I prefer men. Now yes, seriously, the lack of quality men out there does make Lady J dry. Like I am talking to a dude I find attractive and when I look closer and see he wore/wears earrings and/or necklaces - total turn off. If I can cut my grass and/or do handiguy stuff and he can't? Turn off. If he doesn't have a car, things, and/or expects me, other people (especially women) to pay his bills? Turn off. I mean really? This is a man's world and you ain't got your poop together and you want my vagina to get wet? Pleeeze Will the lack of "quality" men push me over to switch teams? Nah, cuz now a days I'm also tired of women and their bull. They are crass and many lack any femininity, physical fitness, etc. Plus, I still like how a hard c*ck looks attached to a handsome and fit guy and will take that over munching tuna carpet any o'l day. So, for me it's doggies, my hands/fingers, porn (I watch male gay porn too, BTW ) and my glass sex toy to keep me happy instead of switching teams... I still have some "hope" though, even though it's once in a long time of a drought, I find a guy who is worth me putting on a thong for...One of them, for a year now seems to be "peacocking" to me (showing off his feathers) to get Lady J wet and show me that he's worthy Edited August 27, 2015 by Gloria25 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 Yeah I know. The title is more shocking than the topic... I read an article. I will see if I can find it on line so I can post a link. However the article was talking about a study in relationships and followed some men and women over the course of 20 - 30 years. During that time they discovered that the women who did not have the opportunity to find a quality mate would turn to their own sex for companionship and love. Men were far less fluid and got angry. The women basically got fed up with only having males that they found undesirable, angry, bitter, overtly aggressive etc so instead of staying "straight" found love with their own sex. Middle aged women (if I remember rightly) who were childless were far more likely to do this if they could not find a suitable male mate. Made me laugh as there are probably all these men scratching their heads trying to find a woman and being an a-hole about it. Meanwhile women are taking care of their own and turning gay... Yes I am using generalisations etc and yes there will always be individual choices etc. The floor is open to discussion... what do you think? If you were a straight woman and couldn't find a suitable male to be your mate would you consider going pink? If you are a man how do you think about it all. Would you consider sticking with team blue instead? I wish that were true for me. I'm hopelessly heterosexual no matter how many a-hole men I come across. I've had the opportunity to be with women, but it just never appealed to me. For companionship, sure. But I've never gotten sexually excited over a woman. *shrug* 3 Link to post Share on other sites
kilgore Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 I wish that were true for me. I'm hopelessly heterosexual no matter how many a-hole men I come across. I've had the opportunity to be with women, but it just never appealed to me. For companionship, sure. But I've never gotten sexually excited over a woman. *shrug* Yeah, I don't think it is an on off switch. Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 I'm a straight woman and have not been able to find a suitable man to be my mate (I'm 55) and no way in hell would I take a dip in the lady pond. It's a mechanical issue - the parts just don't fit. And it's repulsive and weird. I'd sooner consider a gender-neutral thing, where I wouldn't schwang either way. You'd think with all the trouble I've had with men, it would be logical for me to be Lebanese. But it's just not in me. Men do it for me, period. And the reason why I've been unable to mate has just as much to do with me as it does with the men I've met. It's a two-way street. I guess I'm just not cut out to be paired. And I'm fine with that. Did you mean lesbian? Is that a typo or a codeword? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 (edited) I couldn't be gay or bisexual even if a tried my hardest. It's a shame really, because I have had some really amazing women approach me. If I were gay, I'd think I'd died and gone to heaven. I wish I had it in me, but I just don't. :| Edited August 27, 2015 by Popsicle 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SolG Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 Supposedly, people are born gay, and cannot "turn gay." It does not surprise me that women who are born gay cannot find a quality man, and instead pick women. It's not like women are without their problems though. People won't avoid dating issues by switching teams. But the latest research is actually telling us there's a whole lot more to it than immutable biological destiny... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 Did you mean lesbian? Is that a typo or a codeword? It was just a joke, originally coined by Ellen DeGeneres. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 It was just a joke, originally coined by Ellen DeGeneres. She's brilliant! Very funny. Just thinking on my comment in this thread.... post #23) If the title of this thread were in any way true or accurate, I'd surely have been in the pink LONG ago!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
toolforgrowth Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 If women are doing this, then fine. Let them turn gay. As a man, I fail to see an issue here...? Link to post Share on other sites
SolG Posted August 27, 2015 Share Posted August 27, 2015 I think so. How would you feel about a 'masculine' woman tho? I don't mean a woman who looks like a man etc., but ...I exhibit a lot of masculine traits forex, like I'm assertive, confident, I 'handle' things, etc. But I'm entirely feminine in appearance and I'm womanly in my ways. Would you be attracted romantically to a woman like me? (That's not a come-on, lol. ) I don't know :/ I'm also a switch, but have never been dominated by a woman. I'm actually really attracted to strong, masculine men who switch as well. Especially if it involves a bit of fluidity; bi or even CD. A lot of women (probably most!) see this as making them 'less'. I see this as making them 'more'. My experience with women is so limited maybe it's just that my imagination is also correspondingly limited. Or maybe it's strong cultural programming. At this point though I really can't see myself ever having a romantic R with a woman (not as a primary anyway). But if I did it would have nothing to with men or lack thereof, it would because she was right. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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