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How much time do I give her to meet me?


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Thanks guys. It's over. Our last conversation was not pleasant but oh well. I've deleted my viber and whatsapp account , so no contact should be easy. When I brought up her being married, she got upset. Still didn't think it was a big deal if she eventually told people. Good Riddance

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In an earlier post I wrote about a woman I met online who lives in London. I live in the Southwest United States. We talk for hours every day pretty much, and text a lot as well. Additionally, we video chat nearly every day. Given that we're so far apart, I know this thing is a longshot, and I don't want to waste much more time or emotionally energy than I already have. We've tentatively discussed meeting up late October, early November, as she is a contractor, and expects her latest project to end at that time. Lately, she's been kind of wishy washy on meeting. First, she wanted me to travel to London, than she wanted to travel to my home city. Now she's saying she would rather I travel over there. Also the other day, she said she had no plans on meeting me in October, and stated she would be going to Australia to help a friend with a newborn baby she's having. She later admitted she just said that to upset me, because she was mad I didn't message her all afternoon. If she flakes on meeting in October while she has time off work, should I just call it a wash and move on?

 

 

my opinion on the matter is that you and her need to just come to an agreement on where and when you will meet and stop switching back and forth, if you really want the relationship to work you have to give it all you got.

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