Author regret143 Posted September 4, 2015 Author Share Posted September 4, 2015 Regret, what is going on that you're being selfish like this? What I mean is, your little daughter is being exposed to extreme violence and you're saying you love your wife and want to stay with her. What about putting your daughter before your own wants? You already knew how destructive and unhealthy this relationship is before you said anything and you probably knew before you posted that everyone would tell you to get out of this toxic, dangerous relationship. Two adults in this situation is one thing but a little child being dragged into this? I grew up with abusive parents and the fallout always lands on the defenseless child! I lived my life absolutely terrified that my parents were going to kill each other and I wasn't sure who was going to kill who. I still remember nights like it was yesterday, the violence going on and the fear I felt as a child still rattles me to my core to this day! It's so terrifying for a child to see things like this. And have to wonder, if I'm left with one parent, who will it be and how can I be safe with that person? I had no idea, being so young, that if one of my parents killed the other, that person would sit in jail and I'd be left with grandparents or an aunt and uncle. Why isn't your daughter coming FIRST? Wishful thinking that things can get better. Honestly, my kids might be better off with grandparents than with her. And I don't know if I can be good enough either. Link to post Share on other sites
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