wakamiya Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 I never expected to get into a long-distance relationship?.. My guy I've known for about a year - we've fought for awhile, we wanted to reconcile.. I told him "I hope so" when we talked about having things the way they used to be. It hurts really bad.. one night we're spending until 5 AM talking, and I felt really happy. The next he's talking about college, and is starting to show up less and less... we use Messenger a lot. I wish I knew what was going on in his head. It feels like he doesn't care about me at all now. I used to be so close to him.. I thought having things the way they used to be meant we'd spend more time before he has to grow up and move out.. and do school.. right? now I'm coming off as a selfish bitch.. he thinks I'll be worried that he'll meet someone better when he goes to the university. I want to go just as badly but I'm a year younger than him. doesn't make sense because he sounds devoted, but it seems like he's trying to stay away from me? I'm scared I'll start only talking to him once a week or less soon.. I hope this doesn't sound stupid.. can anyone relate to this at all? talking to him would only get him pissed off at me probably. I'm not getting the attention I used to get. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 Online romance is a waste of time... you should sign off and meet some real people, especially if you're just a high schooler. Link to post Share on other sites
scammy Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 right on western, You are missing out on the best years of your life. I have a daughter right now who sits home every night. She is the same age as you her BF is 10 -12 hours away. I had such a busy life at your age. It kills me to watch my beautiful smart daughter sit and pine away she will have to grow up all to soon..... Love is never easy a small number of people stay with there highschool sweethearts now days... I mean a small few... Westernxer is right GO OUT, have fun be a teen.. chase cute boys... Be happy that you are 17 "what I would give to be 17 again!" Do not sit around waiting for a guy who is changing, and he is changing. I had my daughter @ 19 if I would have known that my fun years would be so short, I never would have sat waiting for her dad. Ever heard the song by Incubus called Warning... well it reminds me of....my life... Bat your eyes girl be otherworldly count your blessings seduce a stranger what's so wrong with being happy? kudos to those who see through sickness, yeah Over and over and over and over and oooh When she woke in the morning she knew that her life had passed her by and she called out a warning don't ever let life pass you by I suggest we learn to love ourselves before it's made illegal when will we learn (when will we learn) when will we change (when will we change) just in time to see it all come down Those left standing will make millions writing books on ways it should have been. Goofy but hey it does. Link to post Share on other sites
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