clingy or puppy dog?

[flitzanu]

girls...help me. this was just an observation, i was told by a girl that i'm too "clingy." now, i see the same girl with her new dude and he just flat out follows her around and has his head up her a$$.

 

ladies, can you help explain the difference in being clingy and having your head up someone's a$$?

[laRubiaBonita]

well in a newer relationship, i could see how you may be soo excited that you just wanna be around that person all the time.

 

to me clingy would be my partner needing to be with me when ever i went out, they called all the time when we weren't together, and generally gave off this "lost with out you pathetic" vibe.

[ReluctantRomeo]

Originally posted by flitzanu

girls...help me. this was just an observation, i was told by a girl that i'm too "clingy." now, i see the same girl with her new dude and he just flat out follows her around and has his head up her a$$.

 

 

He's gonna be called clingy too, one of these days.

[greenhorn]

Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo

He's gonna be called clingy too, one of these days.

 

Fully agree with it.

 

Well clinginess is a relative term, if the girl loves you then it is called love, if the girl want to dump you then the same action is CLINGY. this is the difference.

[EC]

Well clinginess is a relative term, if the girl loves you then it is called love, if the girl want to dump you then the same action is CLINGY. this is the difference.

 

Exactly! When I was dating before and I had this I would say "CLINGY" but with my now bf I have to have him all over me.

 

Its just funny that way.

[ReluctantRomeo]

Originally posted by EC

Its just funny that way.

 

It's blaming someone else for your own feelings... not to put too fine a point on the matter

 

Not a personal dig, EC. More a general rant on my part.

[LucreziaBorgia]

There can be genuine 'clingy' and then there is 'clingy' - what a lot of people call "attentiveness" when they want out of the relationship.