truthtripper Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 SugarKane, I get you. You need to get loads of s*** off your chest. People have annoyed, betrayed and hurt you. I feel that you could have been betrayed by an adult(s) in your childhood and this betrayal keeps being triggered in your adult life. Your discontent is valid wherever it's coming from. All these past hurts take time to heal. Complain, vent, vomit all you need! What you need is an empathic listener, sound board and boy are they hard to find. Writing down my feelings, pen and paper, has always helped me when no one has the patience to listen. Venting in front of the mirror does wonders too. I know it's difficult to find a psychologist who isn't patronising. My cats do a better job. In time you'll find that you will be able to handle the hurtful comments/actions of others in a different way and not allow them to upset you. Take it from me, been there, done that! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
La Trese Posted October 21, 2015 Share Posted October 21, 2015 (edited) From what I've noticed over the months reading your posts, you are too much of a downer for most people to enjoy being around. Too much feeling sorry for yourself and whining and nixing every piece of advice anyone gives you. Time to go to a psychologist and get it all off your chest and make sure you're not chronically depressed or have a chemical imbalance. Wow. Harsh. I usually spot on agree with your advice, and this board is very lucky to have you because your insight is awesome (some of your advice to me has been life changing to me and I truly thank you for that)! But maybe it isn't really helpful to make assumptions like that based on this person's posts. I pretty much only post on here about my friendship problems or something thats bothering me, if someone were to just read my posts they wouldn't realize I have at least 7 close friends ive had for years whom I adore and think I hate everyone lol. Im going to give this person the benefit of the doubt because 1) we can't possibly know they are a downer unless we have actually spoken to them, they very well may not be and 2) if they actually do have depression it might make it worse calling them a downer and saying no one enjoys being around them 3) sometimes when people betray you its ruins your self esteem and for a while and thats why you act all sad but are not normally like that. Edited October 21, 2015 by La Trese Link to post Share on other sites
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