edgygirl Posted September 6, 2015 Share Posted September 6, 2015 I'm thin, less than 120 lbs, 5'4, and prefer guys on the chubby side Guys with tons of muscles actually turn me off to be honest - I know I'm more compatible with guys who are not gym rats and prefer someone who spends his time doing brainiac things than physical things, so when a guy is too toned I am likely to think his lifestyle and interests are incompatible with mine. There's no general consensus, each person likes what they like. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
GravityMan Posted September 6, 2015 Share Posted September 6, 2015 Would a six pack help me in anyway to impress a woman in having a relationship with me? The fact that this question even crossed your mind and lingered in it tells me that your issues with attracting others is far deeper and more mental than your abs. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 (edited) It is nice to look at and will initially attract some women. But it's not that important. I've dated a few guys who had great bodies but were otherwise not good matches for me. A six-pack doesn't keep a woman around in the end. Ditto. Good looks or a nice body are but the tip of the iceberg and won't sustain or even start a relationship. If you have a six pack but are otherwise none of what this woman is looking for then no, it won't entice her to have a relationship with you. Many of us have experienced meeting someone who we thought was physically attractive, only to talk to them or go out with them and realize they were extremely dull or just not what we want. Unless the woman is exceptionally shallow, a six pack alone (or any other physical feature) won't be all there is to her deciding to be seriously involved with you. Also, unless I'm at the beach or gym, I can't think of ever meeting any men and seeing their six pack before we had sex or at least got very close to where there was some reason why they were shirtless around me. ALL the men I've dated and slept with were fully clothed every time I saw them until we were already dating. However, initially I could see a general outline of their physique but I couldn't really see if they had a six pack or not until we got close enough where I'd hug them or touch them or we were naked together.It was 9/10 times their face, their smile, stuff like that that attracted me, maybe the way they dressed, and not a six pack....so sorry...I don't even see how a woman would even know about your six pack to begin with unless you never wear shirts or always wear muscle shirts. Edited September 7, 2015 by MissBee Link to post Share on other sites
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