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Just found out he deceived me for 2 years


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I hear you, but to tell me stop dating means to tell i to not have kids. How can i have kids without a man, dating leads to all of this..,

 

Thats the consquence of what your suggesting..

 

You do not need to have children until your dysfunction has been addressed.

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Hi OP ...dating really sucks sometimes. Anyway ...how old are you?

 

The suggestion to take some time away from dating to establish healthy boundaries is a valid one. Being a parent is the hardest job I've ever had ...requires an immense amount of emotional resources.

 

Also ...what is your occupation?

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She referredto him in the video as my husband, that is current. So he lied.

 

He invited me as his g/f. She wasnt there. It was clear a woman had lived there as you could see a womans touch but it was also clear that her belongings etcwere no longer there.

 

I took this to mean he was serious, as he brought me to his house. Now im thinking she may have been away and he had me over.

 

If he lived with his wife and he shagged you in the bedroom there is absolutely no way he could have managed to completely get rid of all of her clothes, all of her makeup, all of her jewelery, all of her bathroom stuff, feminine products and shampoo, everything out of the closet, all of her shoes and everything else in the house. That would be such a collossal effort and he'd be bound to get busted when she came back home and found all of her stuff completely rearranged and clothes rumpled in the dresser and the closet completely reorganized.

 

Chances are that he was telling the truth and they were separated, at least at the time. It's also quite possible, remember, that the wife wants him back and still refers to him as her husband (and possibly is the reason they're separated and not divorced, maybe she refuses to sign the papers or perhaps its for tax or benefit purposes).

 

Take a step back and maybe ask him about the facebook post before jumping to conclusions

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OP... You should seriously consider professional counseling.

 

Honestly, if you come across to these men the way you come across on this thread, it's pretty apparent why they "disappear."

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Well, on that wonderfully upbeat note, I'll close this up. As an old-timer, thread starter, you know how to get hold of us for any changes. Thanks everyone for your participation.

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