LookAtThisPOst Posted September 6, 2015 Share Posted September 6, 2015 Got into a back and forth with a single woman on Facebook, she posted a video about "Dating an extroverted single woman" and one of the key bullets was how extroverts seem to have a social calendar that's always too full to date. He response, "We extroverts cannot help the fact that our social calendars fill up quickly. So it's impossible and can NOT be helped? Really? I argued the basic, common sense argument. "If she, or even HE, is into them enough, they'd make the time." Then she said, "or...maybe he should be patient." Red herring argument obviously. Thoughts? I'll keep you posted on continued coverage. Link to post Share on other sites
hotpotato Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 To be fair, some people are busy, extrovert or otherwise. However, if so.eone is dating, that other person shouldnt be an afterthought. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BlueIris Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 It’s not a red herring. It’s true. But if you’re doing OLD, perhaps state that you’re more of a homebody or like to spend lots of time with you S.O. That would the narrow down the pool to people who are a better match for you. If you are pursuing someone who is so busy that it annoys you, don't pursue her. Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 LATP, repeat after me: "How others choose to be is none of my business*. How I choose to be is no one else's business". This mantra is the answer to ALMOST ALL of your threads. Look, 90 percent of everyone out there just isn't right for you. It doesn't make them wrong. Yes indeed, her busy schedule might make finding love more challenging for her, assuming that is her actual priority--which it might not be. But you're not her dating coach or advisor or anything. *Assuming she isn't breaking any laws or anything 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 I much prefer introverted men who aren't shy. I wouldn't last a week with an extroverted man. Link to post Share on other sites
Frank2thepoint Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 He response, "We extroverts cannot help the fact that our social calendars fill up quickly. Translation, she's not attracted to you. When a woman is attracted to a man, she'll find time in her "busy" calendar for the man. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 Translation, she's not attracted to you. When a woman is attracted to a man, she'll find time in her "busy" calendar for the man. I agree... no matter how busy a woman is if she is interested in him she will make room for him make his move. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LookAtThisPOst Posted September 7, 2015 Author Share Posted September 7, 2015 I agree... no matter how busy a woman is if she is interested in him she will make room for him make his move. Got an update, she said she won't cancel her current plans with her friends for a date, so that would make sense. She also says she will come back with an alternative time if a certain time doesn't work for her. She says if she IS busy, she is being honest. I had to laugh when she asked me, "You mean some women aren't honest?" Link to post Share on other sites
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