Jiradish Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 Hello, before i start i want to apologize for any grammar mistakes as english is not my 1st language. First thing i would like to describe myself, i m 27 yo male virgin (yes huge problem and main reason why i started this topic) never been in any sort of intimate relationship, and only been frieds/ close friends with females. What i m about to write may sound cocky but i m by no means ugly, i d say im pretty good looking guy, never had problems with talking to girls, flirting with them, having casual conversations or anything of that sort, i have got high education , did biotechnology course, and i m pretty knowlageable in many diffrent subjects, so when it comes to conversation i can keep the topics going, also i live by myself, and i work to cover my own expenses, by that i mean i dont need help from parents or from any other source. Ok so you could say where is the problem. Mainly when i look at my life or experiences i have only been meeting or had crushes on girls who have been auto rejecting me, or either had boyfriends even if they been pretty flirty with me ( yes i hate it becouse it s confusing af), over the time i really lost self confidence in myself if i even am a date able subject or not, and i would love to change things about me but i honestly dont know where to start. Going deeper into that, i kind of rised abit of depression states in myself, and i can clearly say i m an unhappy person, it really is tiresome, and good thing i have a job or else i d be overthingking everyday how miserable and pathetic i m which shouldnt be like this. Recently i have been thinking if taking hmm service from a prostitue would help me with that problem of doubting myself, becouse i dont even know if i would be able or not to satisfy a woman I would really love to hear some honest opinions and advices how can person get more confidence becouse i really dont want to continue like this... Link to post Share on other sites
newmoon Posted September 7, 2015 Share Posted September 7, 2015 there is nothing wrong with being 27 and a virgin. it sounds like a high age and it might feel horrible, but lots of people are in your situation as well. it doesn't mean you're ugly, it means you've got some social issues that need to be worked on. what about trying some online dating services? it sounds like maybe you're just not meeting enough women on your own. online dating might not be for you, but it's a good way for people who are shy to post a picture and profile and get some responses. that will increase dating confidence immediately, if women respond to you based on a picture .. and you said you look good. it doesn't sound like anything is wrong here other than not meeting enough people. you have to keep trying to meet someone or you never will - no one will knock at your door Link to post Share on other sites
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