Beth2610 Posted September 8, 2015 Share Posted September 8, 2015 I've been seeing this guy now for about 6 months, we have been friends for longer. We grew intimate quite quickly but that didn't stop is becoming even closer and having a great time together. After about 3/4 months things have died down a little. When we are together things are great and there is a real connection and spark but when we are not together I struggle to even get a reply to a text! Any idea what is going on in this guy's head? And asking doesn't make me less confused. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted September 11, 2015 Share Posted September 11, 2015 Hard to know for sure but the end result is you're apparently feeling neglected and that's valid. Since relationships are voluntary, all we can do is communicate our boundaries and ask for what we want and what happens, happens. No one is required to follow a schedule or interact in a certain volume and quality. It's voluntary. If I had to 'get in his head' as a 56yo, I'd say his attentions are divided. That could be 'stuff', it could be other women, it could be friends and family. In any event, he doesn't appear consistently focused on you and your interactions, though enjoys them if and when they occur. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Zagan Posted September 14, 2015 Share Posted September 14, 2015 Is it love. No, it isn't. Link to post Share on other sites
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