MarriedwithChild Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 Well, since this post I know that he hasn't looked at his webcam girls in front of our son. I simply would check the history and properties to see what time he was he was viewing and it would be when he was feeding him dinner. Our son is on very strict schedule. We both work, me part time and him full time. As far as the incest/molestation factor, I am not worried about this aspect at all. He knows that I don't like him looking at these sites, therefore he "sneaks a peek" whenever possible. I honestly think that he saw this time as a moment without me here and he had a chance to look at these "women". It was just within the past 2 months, I figured out he did it at least 3 times when I know our son was more than likely hanging out next to him having dinner. One time was when he was feeding our son and I was outside cutting the grass (maybe 20-30 mins). Therefore, I have no doubt that he is NOT masturbating while viewing. My fear at one point was there was "someone special" on this site, but he denies it. After I posted and had a couple of responses, there was a time he was feeding him while I was sitting on the couch, and I said, "don't you wanna check our 'your girls'?" He said that he had tried it before but our son started looking at the screen so he turned it off. I have to say that should I catch him again, I will bring up some of the responses from the pp. My husband is a wonderful man, but like the other MANY posts on porn, we have had our arguments over this one issue. I know he looks at it and he knows that it bothers me, but I feel I can't talk to him about it anymore or forbid it, unless it is affecting our son. I think he realizes that I knew what he was doing while our son was there has stopped him from checking out his "women", well at least while the child is in the room. I have accepted the fact that he will look, for some unknown reason that I just can't wrap my brain around, but at least he will not affect my son with his viewing habits. Link to post Share on other sites
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