Popsicle Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 (edited) really!! are they having their PA in the church? :lmao: right after the sex they would just pray to Jesus to bless their betrayed:bunny: spouses No, but they do it with their spouses right in the next room while they are on religious retreats or missions, and then they go pray, yes. Edited September 12, 2015 by Popsicle Link to post Share on other sites
qubist Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 No, but they do it with their spouses right in the next room while they are on religious retreats or missions, and then they go pray, yes. bunch of hypocrites. can i ask why didn't you say anything to the betrayed spouses 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author TrustedthenBusted Posted September 12, 2015 Author Share Posted September 12, 2015 My mother in law is a renowned psychoanalyst who teaches at the college level, has a thriving private practice, and has published several books on relationships. Many of you have probably read her work. She is on her fourth marriage. And this time it's to a barely closeted homosexua manl. You can't make this stuff up. He's awesome by the way. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Morro72 Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 My mother in law is a renowned psychoanalyst who teaches at the college level, has a thriving private practice, and has published several books on relationships. Many of you have probably read her work. She is on her fourth marriage. And this time it's to a barely closeted homosexua manl. You can't make this stuff up. From what you've said it sounds like being gay is the secret to a happy marriage to your MIL. Meanwhile, the guy who married us was, at the time, being divorced due to a long-running affair with a staffer. He was later "allowed to resign" (i.e. fired) and set himself up in the MC business. Successful, too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 It's not apples and apples, but some of the most effective members in AA/NA in terms of helping others are those that have suffered multiple issues and relapses themselves. Sometimes you have to have walked the walk.... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 bunch of hypocrites. can i ask why didn't you say anything to the betrayed spouses I stay out of stuff like that, but I did encourage my friend to end her A. Instead of ending it, she decided to stop talking to me. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 My mother in law is a renowned psychoanalyst who teaches at the college level, has a thriving private practice, and has published several books on relationships. Many of you have probably read her work. She is on her fourth marriage. And this time it's to a barely closeted homosexua manl. You can't make this stuff up. He's awesome by the way. He's awesome but she isn't? If he's homesexual, he had no business marrying her either. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
qubist Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 My mother in law is a renowned psychoanalyst who teaches at the college level, has a thriving private practice, and has published several books on relationships. Many of you have probably read her work. She is on her fourth marriage. And this time it's to a barely closeted homosexua manl. You can't make this stuff up. He's awesome by the way. maybe she is into some sort of experiment, can't wait for her next book Link to post Share on other sites
Author TrustedthenBusted Posted September 12, 2015 Author Share Posted September 12, 2015 He's awesome but she isn't? If he's homesexual, he had no business marrying her either. honestly, at their age, I don't know that it even matters to either of them. Link to post Share on other sites
warshaw Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 Anyone else ever have to counsel people through this while hiding their own secrets? My struggle is providing advice without sounding like the infidelity expert that I've become. Here's an idea you have not considered. Stop keeping your own secrets and share your common history. Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 honestly, at their age, I don't know that it even matters to either of them. Well, I was just wondering why in your eyes, he is awesome but she isn't. Link to post Share on other sites
Lois_Griffin Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 Be sure to tell your newly betrayed friend to visit the ChumpLady site so she can learn to deal with things realistically, not in the deluded fashion recommended by the more popular infidelity boards. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrs. John Adams Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 Chumplady...my hero! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Horton Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 How about this - I have a friend who is having an affair (her H doesn't know) and gives marriage counseling to couples. (lol) To add to the craziness of it, she is also an ordained minister and the man she is having an affair with is a church pastor. The affair is both emotional and physical and neither of their spouses know. This doesn't surprise me, churches are filled with wolves in sheep's clothing, many of them in positions of leadership. They've turned Jesus into the laughingstock of the world, but they don't care. They just keep on moving along, steamrolling over anybody unfortunate enough to be in their path and they've convinced themselves that it's all okay cause Jesus loves them and wants them to be happy and their happiness is what matters most of all. I think they've mixed up Jesus with Freddy Fender. You throw in the fact that many churches are in the business of concealing their members sins(the exact opposite of the way God commanded the church to deal with sin) so the offenders know that even if they do get caught with their pants down the church will more than likely keep it hush hush and guilt their betrayed spouses into compliance, all for the sake of the children of course. I stay out of stuff like that, but I did encourage my friend to end her A. Instead of ending it, she decided to stop talking to me. Sure she did, she can't have anybody bothering her conscience, oh no that won't do at all. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author TrustedthenBusted Posted September 12, 2015 Author Share Posted September 12, 2015 Well, I was just wondering why in your eyes, he is awesome but she isn't. he's just a great, happy, interesting guy. She is a grumpy old unhappy lady. Don't know what he see in her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
txgrl Posted September 12, 2015 Share Posted September 12, 2015 Ofcourse he's happy he's 'gay' I laugh at my own lame jokes the hardest .. Lol Link to post Share on other sites
m.snow Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 whats wrong with bi men marrying having children and living beautiful life with women. i know a lot of men who where totally gay in highschool and college. in the later years of there lives they got married to women had children and are in wonderful marriages. some of the wives even know about there gay husbands past. Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 whats wrong with bi men marrying having children and living beautiful life with women. i know a lot of men who where totally gay in highschool and college. in the later years of there lives they got married to women had children and are in wonderful marriages. some of the wives even know about there gay husbands past. When the woman doesn't know, it's deception. Period. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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