WillDan Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 Hi. So I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and soon she will be going off to college. When I first met her it was great and we were happy. We stayed up all night and talked which was something I was need to but started to make me love her. Things were great for awhile and we both admitted that we were in love. But that's when things took a turn. I started finding out that she had a lot of guy friends and still talked to other ex's even tho I was being told that they were just friends. One was even a guy she cheated on with to ge back at her ex. Another ex was quote "the first person she fell in love with". He kept calling and making her cry but she would always entertain it. I would tell her to stop talking to him then she would stop for a min but go right back answering his calls or text thus lying to me. She is very flirty which I would normally not have a problem with but to me its almost as if its too flirty. I love her and she has stated and proved to me many times that she loves me but things are at the point that if I stay I feel like my heart will get broken but I also cannot bring myself to break up with her. She has told me that I get jealous and mad for no reason even tho to me it was her that betrayed my trust in the first place. We call each other everyday and stay on the phone in silence for hours but when I tell her to talk to me she says that there's nothing to talk about. Now she is going to an out of state college soon and in a couple months I'm going to marine boot in a couple months and I feel that she should be there for me when I graduate boot camp, but we both know that she is afraid of being alone. She said that she does love me more than anyone else but she doesn't know if we will still be together after I get out. Im afraid to lose her and have someone else comfort her when I can't but I can't put my life on hold. We argue and fight but we still stay strong but this is a big event in both of our lives and she knows that I won't be there with her. So do I breakup before anything happens or stay together and see. Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 Break up. Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
madjac74 Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 We call each other everyday and stay on the phone in silence for hours but when I tell her to talk to me she says that there's nothing to talk about. Fight for this! Noooo...Im just kidding. Break up. The girl is a hoe and she is going off to Sexual Tension Party State University soon. Save yourself some heartbreak and end it now. Link to post Share on other sites
Ijustdon'tgetit Posted September 13, 2015 Share Posted September 13, 2015 Not only her issues — the relationship has absolutely no trust.. Link to post Share on other sites
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