ajaxfan34 Posted September 14, 2015 Share Posted September 14, 2015 Hi all... a little while ago I posted about how my Ex of 3 years was contacting me trying to get me back and trying to convince me of how poor and irrational her decision was and that she's changed and is willing to make it work. (pls refer to it for more background info) Well she's still trying it we've hung out a few times and well the only thing I have to say things with her are better than they were before... she's more fun to be around and somehow seems like she's matured in the month or so we were apart. Realized that over the past year she wasn't the girlfriend she could have been etc. This is starting to dawn on me as I've began thinking of taking her back but at the same time I still have that fear that what if something happens again, this would be a fourth time then that we've split. (granted the first two were silly but nonetheless) Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted September 14, 2015 Share Posted September 14, 2015 Hi all... a little while ago I posted about how my Ex of 3 years was contacting me trying to get me back and trying to convince me of how poor and irrational her decision was and that she's changed and is willing to make it work. (pls refer to it for more background info) hey it would be really cool that if you wanted people to help learn your information to help you, you would link your own backstory lol since you only had like 7 posts, I went and found it for others. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/545462-she-wants-me-back-but-i-m-not-sure-second-opininon oh wow I remember you!!! welcome back why didn't you just update that original thread? I don't know if I have much else to offer you buddy. 4 times broken up seems like too many to me, and one month doesn't seem like enough time for a person to change... but you're the only one who can truly know what kind of person you want to be with. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted September 14, 2015 Share Posted September 14, 2015 Yeah, no one changes in a month. She's selling you the same bill of goods you've been sold four other times. It's time to stop circling back and trying to put lipstick on a pig. Link to post Share on other sites
jasxo Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 I think that some people really can have an epiphany and realize they were wrong/change for the better. You know her better than us though... Does she have a track record of not being consistent and being manipulative? If not I think you can give it a shot. But take it very slooooowly. Link to post Share on other sites
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