1,5 years post break up. Doing great :)

[Arient]

Hello breakup 'copers'. Just want to throw a little bit of positiveness into this section.

 

It has been a long while since I frequently logged onto this page. As usual, it's full of sorrow, regrets, dissapointment, anger and all sorts of feelings you're supposed to have after a breakup. One positive thing though, that I can see that all the people coping with break up at the same time with me seemed to stop coming here as well, a sign that they managed and moved on

 

I'm 1,5 years post break up. 3,5-year relationship. A true, deep and mad love that created a lot of great memories. I'm still super grateful for having such relationship. When it ended, it literally made me malfunctioned mentally and physically for a long while, like all of you here today. But after putting myself into changes, doing new things, shoving the past aside, here I am, stronger than ever, happy with my new relationship with a great guy. I just want to say to you all that everything will pass, I was in the same shoes, so I know what you're going through, but you will manage, and finally, find love again. I can't say that I will not have to go here again and deal with another break up, but I'm sure that if it ever happens, I will still survive and be happy.

 

A golden rule for you in this time: Stick to NC (STRICTLY), I broke NC a few times, and none helped. It's like cutting an addiction. It will hurt you a lot, but you will heal much faster, rather than maintaining low contact and you will just drag on the pain.

 

Hope you all will soon be out of the pain, and find someone new! After all, love is still a wonderful thing!

[Ellie35]

Love this update. Gives hope to us all.

[HeBa]

Such A positive Vibe .. thank you and best of luck in your new relationship .. happy wishes for you always