Bigmess2 Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 I can't wait for the day where I'm good enough for someone. Where they love me as much as I love them and don't have to question it. I'm always liked, just never enough. It's tiring. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 Don't waste your time just waiting. Things do not come for those who wait. What you need to do is double down on getting busy and actively living. You need to make yourself happy by committing to consistently going (alone if necessary) to do the things you love to do outside the home. If you have no interests, then your parents didn't raise you right, and you need to go find some interests and try new things. I put volunteering high on the list because it makes you feel good and helps other, whether it be people or animals. If you're not into physical activities, at least try one. Take tennis lessons or bowling lessons or even start shooting pool or taking water aerobics (lots of older ladies there -- they all have granddaughters). Just reach out and do things to expand your mind. Become multifaceted. It makes more people interested in you. Become stylish -- go to a good barber for a modern cut, and then go to a nice department store and ask for the clerk to put together an outfit for you, whether it be dress or sporty, that is modern and put together. Then spend the money to have it tailored to fit you perfectly. You don't have to spend a pile of money on clothes. It's better to buy a moderately priced suit and have it perfectly tailored to fit than to spend a gob of money on an expensive suit that doesn't fit. Read. Stop playing video games or whatever it is you usually do and read a variety of books. It costs nothing if you use the library. Improve yourself, make yourself more interesting, and more people will gravitate to you. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 I can't wait for the day where I'm good enough for someone. Where they love me as much as I love them and don't have to question it. I'm always liked, just never enough. It's tiring. This should read: "I can't wait for the day when I find someone good enough for me. When they love me, as much as I love them, which is just as much as I love myself.... No question. I'm always liked, but that's not important, because I always like myself, too.... It's so rewarding." Until you learn to value, appreciate and respect yourself; until you learn the type of self love which means a healthy self-esteem, humility and confidence; until you learnt that self-love is not based on ego, but a positive self-image; then you will always want something just beyond your grasp. Until you give yourself 10/10, then no-one else will, either. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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