Paisleycat Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 My story..our story, really...I met a guy who wanted a serious relationship like I did. We took things slow, which was nice. I was actually impressed that he didn't put pressure on me to be physical right off the bat! Well then I found out that he had been in a relationship of 10 years. They'd been engaged and she left him. That was intimidating to me. It wasn't until even later on that I found out it had been less than a year. No wonder he was moving so slow. It wasn't love at first sight, but he grew on me and I fell very hard. Unfortunately, I'm better at knowing what I want in a relationship than he is. I guess that's one benefit of having more dating experience as an adult. Lol. Long story shorter...he dumped me and part of it was because I was impatient. There were a few reasons, actually. Either way, we slept together the night we broke up and several times since. He keeps in touch with me and we pretty much went back to dating behavior. I did the NC thing briefly. I'm thinking of doing it again. Am I just being foolish thinking we might reconcile? Link to post Share on other sites
EO422 Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 i dont know really people deal wiht break ups in different ways...maybe he truly did see a lot of the good in you, and wanted to take it slow as too make sure everything in his life was good, and so he could keep you? IDK, not too sure...he should have taken more time to himself..but sometimes people get over breakups fast Link to post Share on other sites
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