Angel29 Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 I recently saw a clairvoyant. I know some people are sceptical about them but they have helped me to grow as an individual and take charge of my life. The reading I had recently has left me feeling upset and depressed. I said to the clairvoyant I didn't know where I stood with two people and she was quite abrupt back saying "they don't know where they stand with you". She then started to point out my faults of acting disinterested - the reason behind this is I get very shy if I like someone and then other times I can easily get the courage and talk to that person. She really kept focusing and blaming me saying I had 'missed opportunities'. Whilst I know I am partly to blame and need to be a bit more confident but I don't understand why she failed to realise the other party haven't been clear either - this is in relation to people who I liked and they liked me. I know they lack confidence from their body language and things they have said. Some of these 'opportunities' I have not taken up as I know that the person was not right for me and will not settle. She focused on my lack of confidence which now I feel has gotten worse as she made me feel awful. Can anyone help? Link to post Share on other sites
eye of the storm Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 Maybe she was calling it like she sees it. The only person you can control/change is yourself. The person you talked to has no reason to delve into them, you are the one asking for advice/clarity. Also, how can you improve if nobody lets you know a behavior you are exhibiting is holding you back? My recommendation is to take her advice on getting out of your shell and being more confident and to stop trying to shift the blame onto others. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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