MikePeek Posted September 17, 2015 Share Posted September 17, 2015 Hi there, Last Christmas after a argument I had with my girlfriend, she told me she went out with a guy for a coffee and he tried to make a move on her. Afterward, she spent nearly a month without telling me about this, and I also discovered she spent along that time messaging this guy God knows what. After our argument settled, she told me she would stop speaking to him. In March this year, the guy asked her out for a dinner, which she didn't accept. She told me she would delete his phone number and facebook friendship for good. Ever since, I been having trust problems. I usually trust people until they have proven otherwise. In my mind someone who hides stuff from you once, can always do it again. Yesterday, I asked her on the phone, "If this guy ever contacted her again?" For a brief moment, I am guessing by mistake or I simply heard badly, he contacted her only a few months ago. When she graduated her college course and after she told me she wouldn't speak to him. It was very brief and immediately over her words, she said he didn't. I'm not sure if I heard well or not! But I am having problems in trusting her. I'm not sure if I am stressing too much about this situation or not. Or, if my concerns are real. Any advice would be welcome, thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted September 17, 2015 Share Posted September 17, 2015 No one can promise you anything about anyone. You have never caught her with a lie. You may be upset about what happened but she was honest with you, and told you by her own will and initiation. The fact that she did not tell you immediately - Well she probably didn't want to make you insecure, because LDR can make things look bigger than what they really are. Link to post Share on other sites
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