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6 months on--should I be dating?


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I quit my job for my ex-husband whom I then left, and I am totally adrift, broke, having a terrible time.

 

A month ago I started sleeping with my friend who obviously had a huge crush on me...but I can tell he's not emotionally available. He texts me every day and wants to meet up/go out whenever he's free, and the sex is great, and yet I sense there's a block that is preventing him from being open to love.

 

Is it better for me to just cut it off? Or enjoy the company and try to have silly fun? I'm in a new city and have very little companionship to even look forward to. But is it making it worse to be intimate with someone who isn't open to love?

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Nothing wrong with having fun, but be honest: Can you keep it at just that? A lot of people have trouble keeping things casual as time goes on, which is why a lot of people recommend exercising caution when dating during a separation or divorce or dating someone who's going through those things.

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