WithOrWithoutYou Posted May 19, 2005 Share Posted May 19, 2005 Originally posted by snoop_dawg22 That's why we agreed to go out. I don't want to end up having sex with him on the 1st date. Probably a good call, but I don't think you can be sure that his intentions were dishonorable, especially if you have known him for a year. He may just be a really nice guy who thought cooking you dinner would make a good impression. Go on a few dates, and who knows, you might actually want to end up back at his place. But as has been said, for the first date, going out is a very good idea. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted May 21, 2005 Share Posted May 21, 2005 I think it was sweet that he offered to cook you dinner....but Has he made any sexual references to you ? Is there a physical attraction ? AND if its booty call....in order for it to materialize into real booty call...its going to take both of you....So when he starts sliding his hand across your leg , its just best to say " hey I dont feel comfortable with that " If you hardly know him I would NOT let yourself go over there. If he did turn out to be a sicko...But if you know and trust him and dont want to end up in bed with him , its best to just go out in public.. Will he try it again ? Sure....Will you be ready when he does ? And later on...after you feel comfortable...if it goes there and you are ready then thats how it will turn out..maybe.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted May 21, 2005 Author Share Posted May 21, 2005 Went to dinner and out to a bar to watch the Mavs vs the Suns. I had a great time. No one ended up at anyone's house either. Good thing too. We already have another date planned for this weekend ( and not at his house either ). Thanks for all the advice. I think he honestly likes me and we're getting to know each other more... ( just call me naive ) . Link to post Share on other sites
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