JT2015 Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 Guys, I'm really at rock bottom now. https://www.loveshack.org/forums/familial/family/546517-one-side-family-controlling-everything My other thead. Last night I think it's real and true this time. My wife is so brainwashed by her parents/family now that she lies and does things behind my back. Long story short, last night her parents come over and we fought, and her dad was getting violent at me.. basically telling me to piss out etc in front of everyone. This is a big deal and now I have no more trust/belief in what my wife says or do anymore. I'm thinking about ringing LegalAID, what should I really do? Link to post Share on other sites
coryreply Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 Have you been ale to talk your wife into seeing a counselor at all? Have you tried? Your in-laws are trampling the boundaries of decency and respect. This is a problem for your marriage. It will not magically disappear. You need counseling. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JT2015 Posted September 18, 2015 Author Share Posted September 18, 2015 Thanks for the reply. Can you advise who to call to get cancelling, and can one person (me) make this counselling happen when she being too brainwashed isn't going to go with me to get councelling? Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 I'd have asked him to leave or had the cops drag his rear end out. That's your home pal. You need to man up and run your own house. You don't have much to lose if that's your life. Start pushing back. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JT2015 Posted September 21, 2015 Author Share Posted September 21, 2015 I have been pushing back for a long time with no luck. Now its just living for the kid. i really love my son and can't live if i can't see him. Councelling is not going to work with my wife. She is not going to listen. i live with her long enough to know this. Link to post Share on other sites
qubist Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 I have been pushing back for a long time with no luck. Now its just living for the kid. i really love my son and can't live if i can't see him. Councelling is not going to work with my wife. She is not going to listen. i live with her long enough to know this. you have to offer at least before you pull any trigger. talk to he, if you can't leave her a note, it could be a message or email. tell her that you love her and your son and are willing to do what it takes to save the family then suggest counseling. put it in a way that counseling will help both of you see what went wrong and learn from it. if she doesn't respond maybe it is time to call a lawyer . Link to post Share on other sites
Author JT2015 Posted September 22, 2015 Author Share Posted September 22, 2015 Well today I made the move and told her i'm booking a counsellor. It's now a matter of locking in a time and see if she goes or not. If we go part ways what I really want is for myself to be 100% at peace with the decision. Getting counselling now is to say I won't look back in 10/20 years from now and regret not getting counselling. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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