How long does the dreams last???? Just dreamt about my ex.

[kevin smithy]

Well literally this sucks. My ex dumped me after all the I love yous and the I will always love you. Constantly brushed me off when i try to meet her even when i did meet her, also i broke N.C and called her, she said shell return my call or text me well that didnt happen. That was two days ago when i called. Ao now its 5 in the morning and i dreamt us having sex, i dream her alot especially at thos hour. How long does this last, cause im really tryna move on here.

[15Love]

I think it gets easier with strict NC. You've only had a day or two nc. It's gonna be intense right now. Not a good sign if she's ignoring you. What's the longest nc youve done?

[kevin smithy]

I think it gets easier with strict NC. You've only had a day or two nc. It's gonna be intense right now. Not a good sign if she's ignoring you. What's the longest nc youve done?

 

I had already done 2 weeks. i called because i was missing but she didnt have no time for me and just kinda shrugged me off. said she might text or we'll call later but i didnt know she was playing me. i am in strict N.C now and im sure that i wnt ever call or message her again. i just want the dreams to stop.

[15Love]

I know. I understand. I'm sorry.

[DirtyBerty]

I had the same problem. Would dream we got back together or were cuddling. When you wake up it's such a horrible feeling. I found that doing loads of new and different things during the day and seeing friends actually helped. Dreams often are an amalgamation of what we've done and thought about that day. So when I started doing more, seeing friends, seeing old friends I'd let go of years ago, that sort of thing, the dreams about my ex were much less often.

 

For me in the first few weeks, doing things like that was still painful. I still felt bad and thought about her a lot, but stick with it and hopefully you'll see the benefit.