Star4223 Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 Hello Everyone, I am trying to reach out to all because I am finding it hard for anyone to understand how I feel right now. I am going through a very different kind of relationship. I can give a little background. My friend lives in Atlanta and I live in Kentucky. We used to go to High School together, but really didnt hang out as teens. I am 47 years old right now and he is 48. We connected on Facebook and really hit it off well and have been texting for about a year and a half. When I say texting I mean in the Morning, noon and night before bed. He did come here to Kentucky last year for a visit, be we did not get physical because I dont think either of us felt really comfortable with that because we didnt really know each other that well at that time and we are both a little conservative, didnt want to rush it and he was onky here for 2 days. The problem that I am having now ifs that our communication is starting to dwindle. The last couple of days when I message him it takes a while for him to reply or like, last night when I sent him a message. I said "Is it me or you just dont feel like talking" and he said "Not you, just watching tv, get tired of typing and being on the phone. Too much facebook and Texting. I said Okay, im sorry I will let you relax and then he said Dont be sorry you didnt do anything I just dont feel like talking and trying to keep up with the movie. Yesterday I asked him, Are you attracted to me and he said "Yes, why do you think not?" I know he has a hard time with commitment, but I feel so in limbo Thant is just an example of how thing are going. I just dont know how to handle this as I am used to talking to him whenever I wanted and It was never a problem. I miss our conversations and feel so hurt by this. I feel like if he cared he would never act like this. I just dont know what do do and REALLY need some advice. PLEASE Link to post Share on other sites
Lois_Griffin Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 I just don't think the effort for him is worth the reward anymore. He basically told you he's getting sick of a relationship that's being conducted via text and facebook. It gets real old real fast and it's lost it's charm for him. What is your end game? To just be pen pals until you're 70 years old? Link to post Share on other sites
J21 Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 That upkeep of texting morning/afternoon/night can start getting tiring and burdensome after a while. Even if you guys are a couple, it can get tiring. It has lost its shine by now, and since you haven't even discussed what the end goal for both of you are, it's just dragging. Link to post Share on other sites
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