LoveIsMyReligion Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 About 1 year ago I had a lot going for me yet I was still unhappy. I had a nice house, new car, good job, family, and friends. I had the occasional girlfriend but no one I saw a future with. Then I met a girl who was from Europe. There were some major red flags when I first met her but I ignored them because she was very attractive. We traveled back and forth between the US and Europe to see each other and good times were had. We made plans for me to move to her country because I no longer wanted to live where I did. Long story short, she lost interest when we had a 3 month span of not seeing each other and just short of a few months before I planned to move there. Now she is seeing some other guy who was always chatting her up since the day I met her. So now I'm in a dilemma. I want to move abroad, I've learned the basics of the language, I sold my house, and the last thing to do is find a job. My ex was not the main reason I wanted to move, but she was a big part of it. Now I find myself second guessing myself... I hate to admit it but moving to a country where I don't know anyone is scary. I've always had family and friends to fall back on and once I move they won't be there. On the other hand, a fresh start, a new challenge, new job, new gym, new apartment, new people to meet is something I think I would absolutely love. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Go for it. I was gonna suggest you rent your house out but I see you've sold it already. Try and see how it goes, you may love it and embrace the challenge of being on your own, starting fresh and meeting new people. If it doesn't work out, you can always move back to your town. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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