TaraMaiden2 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Time will tell but there will be blocking. I don't think he's dumb enough to waste any more of his time. No, but he'll be dumb enough to try to waste yours..... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tobin Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 if you ignore him, he will be back. He will always have the "itch." No, if she ignores him, over time he'll eventually burn out and he'll give up and find other, hopefully more productive ways to occupy his time. You can ignore for awhile but if he keeps pushing, it will be more and more difficult to ignore him. Why would it be more difficult to ignore him? She blocks him on phone and all social media, emails etc, and if and when he finds ways around it he blocks those avenues too. If you end it firmly and then ignore him, he should hopefully get the message. If the guy is getting off on harassing her, he's not going to say "Oh, she firmly said to stop it so I'll respect her wishes". If anything it will only feed his behavior towards her. Your advise is contrary to what is a known effective way to deal with harassment and stalkers. IGNORE THEM. Block them, and contact authorities if necessary. Link to post Share on other sites
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