Has she already lost interest, or did she not have any at the start?

[hakim]

It feels like I've blown it with her already... but the thing is that this has happened to me before.

 

 

I met her at a club on Tuesday night. We really kicked it off. We played with the idea of going out on a date and I ended up leading us to a quieter part of the club where we made out.

 

She gave me her number and I got hers.

 

2 days later I messaged her. She gave me a good response. I responded back asking a couple quickfire questions and now she hasn't answered (this was yesterday).

 

I kept it at one day's distance between our texts.

 

 

Does this simply mean she is not interested?

[Maharishi]

It feels like I've blown it with her already... but the thing is that this has happened to me before.

 

 

I met her at a club on Tuesday night. We really kicked it off. We played with the idea of going out on a date and I ended up leading us to a quieter part of the club where we made out.

 

She gave me her number and I got hers.

 

2 days later I messaged her. She gave me a good response. I responded back asking a couple quickfire questions and now she hasn't answered (this was yesterday).

 

I kept it at one day's distance between our texts.

 

 

Does this simply mean she is not interested?

 

So presumably she will answer today. Or maybe she is married or whatever

[hakim]

So presumably she will answer today. Or maybe she is married or whatever

 

I assume she will, but assuming is never really a good idea haha!

 

 

It would be mental if she was... I've never had an affair with someone

[Maharishi]

I assume she will, but assuming is never really a good idea haha!

 

 

It would be mental if she was... I've never had an affair with someone

 

are you dating anyone? Got any people on the backburner? I wouldn't advise putting too much hope into this random chick just yet. Maybe you can go on a date with somebody else tonight?

[hakim]

are you dating anyone? Got any people on the backburner? I wouldn't advise putting too much hope into this random chick just yet. Maybe you can go on a date with somebody else tonight?

 

Been on one date this week (not with the same girl of course)... but I don't think it's going anywhere. Literally all she spoke about was Feminism and womens' oppression...... I got people eye-rolling at me from everywhere ahaha!

[Maharishi]

Been on one date this week (not with the same girl of course)... but I don't think it's going anywhere. Literally all she spoke about was Feminism and womens' oppression...... I got people eye-rolling at me from everywhere ahaha!

 

Other people were listening in to your conversation?

[hakim]

QUOTE=Maharishi;6552829]Other people were listening in to your conversation?[ QUOTE]

 

Well yeah, we were in this small restaurant... and it's basically the people sat next to us who rolled their eyes haha!

[Maharishi]

QUOTE=Maharishi;6552829]Other people were listening in to your conversation?[ QUOTE]

 

Well yeah, we were in this small restaurant... and it's basically the people sat next to us who rolled their eyes haha!

 

What was she saying exactly?

[Maharishi]

What made you wait 2 days before texting her? Were you too busy to text before that? Or was it to avoid looking too keen?

 

I tend to text a guy straight away now if I fancy him. It works.

[Lois_Griffin]

Jeez, a club rat who knew you for an hour or two before making out with you in the corner is acting flaky and not returning your texts?

 

Unheard of!

[Maxtor]

"Met her at a club".

[smackie9]

Just because a girl sucks face with you doesn't mean she's that into you......well maybe she was for that hour or two, but the alcohol wore off.

[Survivor12]

It feels like I've blown it with her already... but the thing is that this has happened to me before.

 

 

I met her at a club on Tuesday night. We really kicked it off. We played with the idea of going out on a date and I ended up leading us to a quieter part of the club where we made out.

 

She gave me her number and I got hers.

 

2 days later I messaged her. She gave me a good response. I responded back asking a couple quickfire questions and now she hasn't answered (this was yesterday).

 

I kept it at one day's distance between our texts.

 

 

Does this simply mean she is not interested?

 

What was the nature of your message & your quick-fire questions?

 

Did you messages involve asking her on a date? Or were you just "playing with the idea" of asking her out?