a.pana32 Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 I'm taking philosophy classes a few times per week after university. There's this man in my group who's 8 years older than me. He's impressed me since the first class cause he's very outspoken and has a great sense of humor. I think I'm starting to like him, but I'm not sure if he feels that way as well or is he just being friendly. We haven't got a chance to talk face to face since I'm going to those classes with a friend and we usually leave right after they end. So, we only talk on Facebook.For around a month we were often casually chatting after the classes, but now it's changed. He keeps on staring at me during the classes with a smile. Also, he always writes me after the class saying how happy he was to see me and that he's looking forwards to other lessons. Also, he called me cute names a few times which sounded more than friendly. But after these messages, I mean, when I reply to them, I usually don't get any response until the next lesson. Then I think - maybe it's all just in my head? He doesn't look like those guys who are flirting with hundreds of girls at a time - he was in a relationship for quite a while and now he's been single for about a year. I'm not sure what to think of all this: from all the messages it seems like he likes me as well; but on the other hand - why doesn't he ask me out then? And why does he take so long to reply? How could I find out if he actually likes me or is it all in my head? Do you think it's possible that he's just being friendly? Link to post Share on other sites
HansonGirl Posted September 20, 2015 Share Posted September 20, 2015 I'm taking philosophy classes a few times per week after university. There's this man in my group who's 8 years older than me. He's impressed me since the first class cause he's very outspoken and has a great sense of humor. I think I'm starting to like him, but I'm not sure if he feels that way as well or is he just being friendly. We haven't got a chance to talk face to face since I'm going to those classes with a friend and we usually leave right after they end. So, we only talk on Facebook.For around a month we were often casually chatting after the classes, but now it's changed. He keeps on staring at me during the classes with a smile. Also, he always writes me after the class saying how happy he was to see me and that he's looking forwards to other lessons. Also, he called me cute names a few times which sounded more than friendly. But after these messages, I mean, when I reply to them, I usually don't get any response until the next lesson. Then I think - maybe it's all just in my head? He doesn't look like those guys who are flirting with hundreds of girls at a time - he was in a relationship for quite a while and now he's been single for about a year. I'm not sure what to think of all this: from all the messages it seems like he likes me as well; but on the other hand - why doesn't he ask me out then? And why does he take so long to reply? How could I find out if he actually likes me or is it all in my head? Do you think it's possible that he's just being friendly? I think he likes you.... not sure why he hasn't spoken to you in person though. Link to post Share on other sites
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